My journey

On my growth

Another blog inspired me to write this morning. I read it and thought wow.... We are going through the same thing at the moment. I have been positive, I have pushed through. There have been rough times. And times I wanted to give in, but it is time to let it go. Time to move on, cut things off.. For good. After my Dom and I broke up, I have gone back and forth... Wondering... Should I stay friends? .. It's what he wants....we both still care about each other. But the right answer is no... And it's difficult because we were friends for a couple of years prior to the relationship, it is very difficult just cutting it off forever, but it's the right thing to do. For my sanity and his.

Talking to others has made me believe there is hope out there. There are some wonderful Doms out and about. There is a right person for me. There is one who will stand by me, through all. Looking forward to what the future will bring...

LaVieEnRose(sub female){Kintsugi} - I’m stealing some of your optimism cause I need it 😒 I’ve not been feeling particularly optimistic lately.

4 years ago

Devotedsub(sub female){His} - It is difficult at times. We all get down. For me as well, even lately.. But seeing things in a different light and being positive is what has brought me through it. Smiling, pushing through, remembering you have a lot to offer.. Even if others cant see it or are focused on the wrong things all of these things can be helpful. We have so much to give, but only for the right person. The one who deserves it, the one who will listen, care, never give up when things get hard, respect and appreciate our submission- that person will receive the best gift in the world. Believe it. Remember it, even when things get challenging.

4 years ago

LaVieEnRose(sub female){Kintsugi} - I’m trying! Knowing I’m not alone in that feeling makes it easier but fake it till you make it right?

4 years ago

Devotedsub(sub female){His} - I have done that at times lately just to get through, but I know I have a lot to offer and so do you. We must never settle! :) and yes you are definitely not alone

4 years ago

J o l l y(sub female){Nillaw} - Good for you! It's such a difficult choice, but I think it's a wise one. It's hard to fully move on when you stay friends. And you deserve the best! You'll find it, it just takes time. ♡

4 years ago

Devotedsub(sub female){His} - Exactly. It's not an easy choice at all. Especially when you know someone for such a long time and become so close to them, but I only want to do the right thing.

4 years ago

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My journey

Cutting off

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