I recently added to my profile something I never put there before. I'm bi-curious. I've been chatting with a very nice Domme and it made me think about why I haven't added it in the past. Was it judgment? Am I afraid of what people might think or say? At one point I may have been. I remember thinking when I joined... I need to make sure my profile is perfect, sounds likable to all so that I will attract a good Dom. In doing so, I may have missed out on meeting some people who would have found some traits about me interesting, if they had read my profile.. And passed it by.
I have come to a point in my life where I am comfortable with who I am. I'm confident about who I am. If I put something in my profile or a blog that someone doesn't like, that is too bad.... I'm me... People can choose to accept me for everything I am or choose not to and keep moving.
I am happy I met a lovely Domme who doesn't even know she gave me another reminder, which I needed, to be who I am and be proud of it!
Take care Cage friends,
-Ds