I have realized something today whilst being quite busy and really not having the best day myself..
Bad days. We all have them. We hope and reach out.. For support. Wanting support is different from expecting someone to carry all of your load on their shoulders. We do anything for the ones we care about. We lift them up when they are down.. But as I have mentioned in past blogs, no one wants to hear negative all of the time. I struggled with this for so long and I'm human, I still have my moments. I would turn even a positive into a negative sometimes.
My point is, if you have a bad day, reach out to others for support.. The ones who care about you. But don't expect them to carry your negativity around constantly. It will drain them. You might just lose someone who really cares about you. And keep in mind.. We ALL have bad days. You may be having one, but you can guarantee.. Someone else probably is too. Don't forget to ask them how they feel!
Have a wonderful night cage friends..
This song, I feel fits perfectly.. Hence the title of my blog tonight.
-Ds
