From my perspective, many come online to kink site thinking their emotional issues can be solved. Often times, I have seen people pretending to be Doms come to a kink site to find a sub who is "weak." Why do they want this? Because they view them as very easy to manipulate. Most don't even realize what they are doing or why. But this is what often seems to happen. Subs often come here because they are brought to a kink site by Doms who have helped them achieve something and think they can find it again... Or they simply come hoping they will find a Dom who won't manipulate them like they have been. Some people who claim to be subs come here because they think having control taken by a Dom will help solve all of their problems. My question is.. How can we stop this as a community from happening friends? What can we do?
I have chosen to take a break from all of this because I am sick of seeing this happen. True Doms and subs are getting bad reputations because of these things. I don't want to personally be a part of a revolving cycle, seeing people come to a kink site for the wrong reason. Another question is.. How can I continue my journey as a REAL sub.. When this shit is going on.. Do I even want to? That's something I personally need to figure out. But I wonder how many others are feeling this way..
All I have for today.
Have a good day cage friends.
-Ds
