Accepting - definition according to Merriam Webster -
1: able or willing to accept something or someone : inclined to regard something or someone with acceptance rather than with hostility or fear
2: tending to regard different types of people and ways of life with tolerance and acceptance
We all grow up from a young age wanting to be accepted. As children, we wanted to fit in, be a part of something. That's just natural. As we grow older, we realize we don't need the acceptance of everyone. It took me longer than it probably should have to realize this. I hated when someone didn't like me. It made me hurt and wonder what was wrong with me. The answer was ... We all have problems. We all struggle with things. I did and still do and always will and so will all of you. Those who accept us with these flaws and with our strengths are the ones we need to stand by. We don't need the acceptance of every person. We don't need to love or be loved by every person. As people , we need social interaction. We need to have SOMEONE. Having someone who believes in you , makes life much easier. Those who don't , don't need a place in your life.
Also, something else very important I thought I'd share that I've learned .. before anyone else will love or accept you , you MUST love and accept yourself. You are worthy of love. You are worthy of respect. Learning these things will help you in your journey throughout life.
I see so many saying the opposite and wondering why they aren't but , remember -You are worthy. You must believe this before someone else will.
Have a great day all.
-Ds
