Here it is. Another blog by another sub in another long-distance relationship. Yayy! I’m sure you’re super excited to read it.
I’ve gone back and forth with myself for several months now on whether I should start my own blog here or not. I read so many others and I post quite a bit in the forum section, but I wasn’t bold enough to make the commitment to tell my own story and share my own thoughts. Like so many others I wondered what I could have to offer that isn’t already being offered by someone else. I questioned if my own experiences and thoughts would be interesting or have any value.
But recently I realized this blog isn’t for everyone else, it’s for me. I enjoy writing. I enjoy the clarity that often comes when I begin putting my thoughts and fears into words. I enjoy the feeling of camaraderie that comes from sharing experiences with others (and reading about theirs). I enjoy constructive feedback and silly banter.
So here I sit, with my fingers flying across the keyboard faster than I can form coherent thoughts. Where to start? A little bit about myself I suppose…
I’m Sir’s kitten. I’d prefer if everyone used my acronym AKFS or KFS rather than call me kitten. Sir has pretty strong feelings about that, which I understand (I get ragey when other subs call him Sir). I’m 30 going on 12. I’m a submissive, a masochist, a little, and a kitten.
I’ve been proudly wearing Sir’s collar for 5 months. He is the center of my universe, my everything. We live 600+ miles apart but we manage to fly to each other almost every weekend. Our relationship is 24/7 D/s but we also have variations of M/s and DDlg in our dynamic as well. We don’t try to put ourselves into any kind of box, we just do what feels authentic to us. I’ll spend lots of time over the next few weeks talking more about the specifics of our dynamic; Sir’s rules, our rituals, the ways we play, and how we balance love and lust and long distance.
I’m not the bratty sort of sub. I like to be a good girl and the idea of being even jokingly defiant makes me cringe. If I were to narrow down my kink to one definition, it would be “pleasing” and I can tell you now, Sir wouldn’t be pleased with a defiant sassy smart mouth. He’s patient and not overly strict and that works for us because I don’t take advantage of that. To be clear though, he’s no pushover. In fact, I was just informed this evening that I have a spanking coming my way when he sees me Friday (oops).
Outside of kink, I’m a bibliophile, a collector of silly mugs, and a career-oriented woman. I’m addicted to coffee and podcasts. I have a new 12 week old kitty cat named Archibald (“Archie”) and he’s an adorable terrorist. I like rainy days in bed and sunny days on or in the water. I love animals and rom coms, stuffies, dancing in the rain, sparkly things and bubble wrap. I’m equally comfortable in evening gowns, lingerie, and over-sized sweatpants. My blessing and my curse is empathy and I believe chocolate chip cookie dough fixes everything.
Until next time,
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