Trust:
firm belief in the reliability, truth, ability, or strength of someone or something.
Honest:
free of deceit and untruthfulness; sincere.
Sincere:
free of dissimulation : HONEST
free from adulteration : PURE
marked by genuineness : TRUE
Some of us live by these beliefs. They make up our core being. But....we have to remember that for others, these are difficult to accept. Some are threatened by these and act out. Maybe even become verbally or physically abusive as their self defense mechanism kicks in. Being a first time recent recipient of this behavior, it was very eye opening. Definitely a learning experience.
Some dominants believe in breaking a sub to gain obedience. I suppose that may be what works for a certain type of dynamic, but it's definitely not for this one. My own self protective nature kicked in and threw my submissive nature behind a block wall. To the One who will be my true Daddy, I will bring down every wall to be Yours. To the imposters trying to gain entry, you can kiss my ass!
*sorry to my little side...sometimes bad words are necessary* Biggest hugs❤️