Submission isn’t about a woman with submissive traits just dropping to her knees, nor is it about her just flippantly calling an assertive man Sir.
It’s not about quick and easy, yet meaningless flirtatious words back and forth on a screen.
Just as it isn’t about a Man just forcing her to her knees and automatically assuming she will submit.
And yes, this is being written as gendered, as I am writing from my perspective. Replace the his, her, man and woman with your own gender specifics personal to you when reading, as opposed to correcting me in my comments and saying I should write to appease your binary requirements. That works better for all involved.
Submission and Domination is about baselines. Consent, honour, trust, loyalty, love, need, desire, respect, passion, lust. The list goes on.
For me personally, to honour a woman enough to subjugate her, she needs to be special. Beyond fucking special.
I’m not talking about play submission. I’m referring to real Domination and submission that embeds itself in the body, the core and the soul of both parties involved.
The magic found in the soul shattering collision of real D/s. Not the stuff you read about in romance novels or watch in Hollywood directed movies. Not the acting found in bdsm porn productions.
The real shit. The type that moves you to emotional levels so intense that both parties involved cry when the intensity of a scene completes and the quietness begins to settle into the soul.
To find someone that you can share things with that level you up and make you understand your worth and theirs. To share things so rare that most will never experience something so beautiful.
To share something intimate with another that goes beyond vanilla realms of just sharing a few home secrets is a ritual so special and so fucking intense, that it takes someone priceless to step up.
A person that understands the value of kink transaction. Not the type of person that devalues it by becoming enamoured and simply chases a fantasy. A fantasy that gets their cunt moving, yet do not understand the reality of it being more than a few flustered and filthy words.
The type of person that chases the Hollywood romance found in movies, rather than chasing a soul changing experience that is lifelong and eternal. That’s not kink. That’s roleplay at its weakest.
What defines kink is sharing an experience that leaves both parties breathless and forever needing more, wanting more, exploring more, discovering more. Not an experience that satisfies completely. An experience that creates the desire to experience even more. To never stop wanting to experience more with that special person.
An experience that moves their fucking souls and changes them forever. A place where they both discover safety and the ability to be able to open themselves up to be able to discover the darkest and most beautiful depths of another as they discover how to both become one.
To share with another. Not just physical sharing, or fluid bonding. Way beyond that. To truly share. To feel another’s joy. To experience another’s soul shattering pain. To be able to help them bleed and relinquish that pain, that sorrow, that anguish and that grief. To be able to discover joy that can only be found through evolution of self, whilst bound to the discovery of another.
To become vulnerable. Truly vulnerable. To let down the walls built over a lifetime and to allow another to find their way in. But not just find. To be openly invited. To invite them to see your raw, your real and your most guarded self. To lay yourself open for judgement, yet knowing you won’t be judged. Knowing you will be unconditionally accepted.
Yes. The act of submission is so much more than just an interaction of kneeling and sucking cock. So much more than a hand around the throat. The act of submission takes courage to finally allow yourself to discover the you that you have built a lifetime avoiding. To allow another to touch your soul and bring you to life.
It is what sets your soul free…
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