It’s never about having the perfect relationship. It’s about finding that special person that matches your needs. The person that can compliment you as a person as well as ground you.
The one that can deliver your safe space and protect you from the things that claw and hurt inside of you. Someone that will go through hell or high water with you. Without question.
The person that will understand that when you push them away, actually means you are crying out for help, and want them to pull you in closer.
The person that anchors your boat when it is listing wildly in that reactive storm of life that hits without warning.
The person that makes their love roar louder than your most dangerous of demons.
That’s what a relationship is about. Never perfect. Often challenging. Always forgiving.
Don’t aim for the perfect relationship. You will never achieve your goals. Aim instead for a solid and lasting relationship.
A solid and lasting relationship doesn’t mean that you will always agree. What it does mean is that despite those days that are challenging and sometimes seem impossibly hard, you cannot see yourself spending a lifetime without that special person...
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