When you look at her and wonder why she seems so cautious, even though you offer your hand of protection.
Why she doesn’t trust so easily, even though you offer transparency and unconditional kindness.
Why she questions if you are genuine, even though you don’t do anything that she, yourself or others would consider a trigger or red flag.
Look past yourself and look at her.
Not just the person you see from the outside.
Not just the physical presence of the woman that you see and are enamoured by.
Look at what has occured in her lifetime to make her what she is today.
Perhaps she doesn’t fear you or what you and her have the potential to become.
Perhaps she doesn’t see any issues based upon the hear and now of you both.
Perhaps what she fears is fed subconsciously by the toxic actions of those in her past.
A cloak of fear and apprehension of those issues arising again in her future world and existence.
Toxic actions of those long gone, yet the tendrils of those actions still grip her and hold her.
Perhaps she tells herself lies.
Lies that have become her blanket of safety that she constantly turns to.
Falsities fed of thoughts embedded through interactions with those that are selfish and nasty.
Interactions with those that embellish reality and embed themselves in negativity.
Interactions with those that love to spread vitriol and untruths.
Interactions that had led her to believe that she was incapable of giving and receiving love.
Unworthy of happiness.
Unworthy of being loved.
Interactions with others who had continuously fed her with untruths and broken promises.
Promises to always love her.
Always treat her with respect.
Over time she had lost her faith in others.
Lost her own self esteem.
Lost her confidence.
Which inevitably led to losing herself.
To become part of her future, you must learn not just about her, but also about her past.
Understand her.
The real her.
Not the practised mask she presents to others.
Not the persona you see online.
What makes her laugh.
What makes her cry.
What makes her the woman she is today.
Then teach her how to trust again.
To care again.
To love again.
To live again…
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