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Newbie here

This is my first ever blog so I'm going to wing it.
I was told about this site in February so I just set myself up on here but didn't do much.

I was just a keyboard warrior waiting for everyone to join me hmmmm. But no I had to get out into the world and taking small steps.

I am not a dom or a sub prefer to be a top or bottom but exploring at the moment, in the ever time she notices me and we will explore what we want in the relationship and look for others to join our poly family.

Off to a poly bdsm event tonight, no expectations, probably leave early due to the fact nothing will happen because I won't join in and hide in the corner like a spoilt brat.
But having said all that the opposite happens to what I expect and turns out ok.
4 years ago. September 29, 2019 at 10:23 AM

I was at an event last night and pleased I went. 

 Should I say it's so frustrating looking at all those couples playing and I am solo.

So I can now say and after some talking I am fully understanding in the world of kink and must remember th put this in my profile that I am caring considerate understanding aware about consent, I know it's given consent consent consent. Even if it's that accidental graze no need,  ask to touch even if it's a no better than that or a slap and being shown the door and never again. Yes you all know this but some don't. Been told it's better to meet and get connection. You are being watched especially if you are New, I go on the assumption they all hate me. No expectations each time then things happen. 

I know you all know I just wanted to put my thoughts on this just starting my journey and make connections with you all.

venia​(sub female){Lextelonis} - If there is a munch nearby, it is often a good place to get to know people and feel more comfortable in the community. It might make you feel less in the spotlight, especially when just stepping out into the community. Good luck to you as you pursue your journey.
4 years ago
Ffuzzjack​(switch male) - I agree I am doing that.

Look what happened I got asked to play so it turned out great and met a few new people even ones I did know.
4 years ago
venia​(sub female){Lextelonis} - Fantastic! I’m so glad you had a good time.
4 years ago

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