Ya know...BDSM isn't all about the play. Being submissive doesn't mean you just do whatever I want you to.
Communication is more attractive than you saying you'll fit into my kink. Being honest is more important than sending nudes to me (honestly that was a test, since you seemed to say heeeeeey you are making this easy...I made it hard on purpose to find your limits.)
Also, don't tell me "I'm not one to ghost someone" then just strait up and ghost me. I'm not stupid, once play stopped you became scarce. You seemed to constantly want to play, and I have work...family....friends...a life. This is why boundaries are established, and perhaps i didn't make it clear.
I'm not writing this directly to her, but if she sees it all the better.
For those getting a message from an individual stating that they agree with everything you say...when in doubt its hardly ever true especially if they are brand spanking new to the scene.
I am growing tired of people kissing my ass in hopes I'll just instantly dom them or put them in their place.
I'm not going to play with anyone till there is an established mutual set of interests. I am growing very skeptical of any private messages I receive outside of the general conversation.
Ghosting anyone for any reason is a crappy thing to do.
For those wondering I sent three messages while she was unavailable, one was good morning (since it was well past her goodmorning time). The other was "Is there anything that changed on your end?" The last was "Are you trying to push my buttons?" And I just left it at that. Good thing that was just a friendship and nothing more.
I will not give up, That was just a shitty person that only wanted to play games.
