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Adventures with one's soul

Random thoughts that may or may not flow, but all add up the adventures to one's soul.
5 years ago. July 18, 2019 at 4:08 PM

I have been wondering if a sub who has had to be alpha and omega for so long, one who has had to learn to Dom herself time and time again, can actually find someone to whom is strong enough yet kind enough to take over. Can one be trusted enough to truly have her best interest in mind and could she trust him enough to hand over those reins?

Or is it that she has built herself and walls so strong that she can not be broken?

 

Just some more random thoughts in a moment in time.

Angelnthedark​(switch female) - Although it is nice to know someone else understands the feeling. I really wish you didn't.. The feeling kinda sucks, but on the bright side feelings do change right?
5 years ago
djinni​(dom female){smplylaura} - With the right One, those walls melt away.... trust me, you'll want them to. It's a journey and you will likely try to hold onto things, but it becomes impossible.
5 years ago
Bishop​(dom male) - It's definitely possible, it takes a lot of communication, understanding from both parties, and time.
5 years ago
boofygurl​(sub female){Taken} - Oh.... I know this feeling all too well too... Sometimes I wonder if I will ever be able to 100% submit as I have had to be the rein leader so so long...
5 years ago
Angelnthedark​(switch female) - And to find one that has my interest in mind also not just his wants when making the decisions.
5 years ago
boofygurl​(sub female){Taken} - Exactly... That is how a Dom should be though... They know that it isn't just about them and their needs/wants/desires.... it is about us subbies too
5 years ago
Dellydoodah​(neither female) - we build walls not to keep people out but to see who can knock them down
5 years ago
DiscoveringMe​(sub female){Cocooned} - It is possible. He does exist. You will see him when its time. Until then dont be afraid to try new things...let yourself explore new adventures.
5 years ago
Angelnthedark​(switch female) - I will keep that in mind..
5 years ago
Daddy Zo​(dom male){Goodgirly} - So I ask miss Dark .
Do you want someone to lay siege to your walls and break them down .
Or do want some one to show you the way out of your own maze .
There are many of us Doms and we all have the best way to do it .
But only one of us will earn it and then we have to keep it .
For me ...🤔
I would climb the walls and find you in your maze. Point the way out and fight for you from there . The same walls you put up is also your prison and can only be opened from the Inside .
Just me and my way of doing it .
5 years ago
Angelnthedark​(switch female) - Most respectively I see and understand your perspective. I do understand that most find a maze intimidating, but for me my maze is a glorious journey of self discovery that is beneficial and a necessary process to become the best possible me. I think I am looking for someone who is will to help if I start going backwards while allowing me to help them through theirs. Also as most people's walls become their prisons, mine have been built to protect the magnificent castle that I have built which gives me plenty of space and beauty.. It's my duty to make sure it's not invaded and stands tall for centuries.
5 years ago
Angelnthedark​(switch female) - Thank you taking your time to read and comment on my post.
5 years ago
Daddy Zo​(dom male){Goodgirly} - Beautiful. As I said . Can only be open from within. Your mind is beautiful.
5 years ago
Angelnthedark​(switch female) - Thank you sir for the comment😔
5 years ago
Sweet Ginger​(sub female){} - Excellent post! I say, yes but it takes a very special Dom.. I found my amazing, when I gave up searching for Him.. I have faith you will find yours too! Take care 🌷
5 years ago
Angelnthedark​(switch female) - Thank you darling and I have taken the position of not looking and following your blog does give inspiration. Even if I don't find mine I know I will be alright.
5 years ago
Sweet Ginger​(sub female){} - Aww thank you kindly...I think you will eventually find him just be patient and as you mentioned, never settled! I also felt like you once, gave up believing I'd find him, even left the cage at that point, until my Sir, found me by that time I was reluctant to contact him, it took me 4 days.. lol, sorry Daddy.. So be patient sweetz 💗
5 years ago

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