My love hate relationship with corsets

Max Heathen​(other male) - yup, takes 2 to tango and usually the one cheating on their spouse is the one who was seeking. That's their problem, and their spouses.

BunnyBites​(sub female)​{HoK} - Honestly, not all married people are cheating. If a couple approaches you they could have an open dynamic. They could be Poly. They could be looking for a third.

I just make sure that I get a chance to speak to BOTH in the relationship. If one partner is refusing to allow that then you know for sure they are cheating.

However I am in a Poly Triad and sometimes that can be a beautiful thing. I was with Damon first for six years then we decided to open our relationship up and find a third. That is how Calvin came to be with us. It was so fulfilling and has been a blessing ever since.

Naturally it must of course be a preference and desire for all involved. Also any person saying they are Poly and their spouse/partner does not know. They are not poly. They are cheating.

And one thing I always love to add, to those that say cheating is a kink. Not in my opinion. Cheating is a Consent Violation.

Spanks hard​(dom male) - It is the divorced women that I stay clear because I almost got caught up in a love triangle that didn't work for her she claimed that her husband was deceased when he was not