As I walk through life with my beautiful lioness by my side it's amazing how time just slips away. This same time last year I was embroiled in a court battle with my first ex wife over my house, I got it in the divorce but she wouldn't sign the papers so the reason I was in the process of divorcing my second wife. You see a person's true self when things don't go the way they want, second wife blamed me because my first wife was a bitch and it was an inconvenience she had to deal with. Got called a lollygager, I had to laugh because it's not a word I would ever associate with someone who is hyper and it definitely doesn't describe me. Now by April 24th of last year I had got my house back in my name only, remove the woman who claimed she cared and went back to being single again, also added a new 15 year mortgage to a house I only had a few years left to pay on, love can be brutal. Now may rolls around and I'm looking at local sites and seeing that most of them are not what I'm looking for, my oldest child recommends fet life, my opinion craigslist of the lifestyle not what I'm looking for. One day I see a ad for the Cage and decided to check it out, first plus I don't have to sign up just to see if I like it, second was it seemed to offer what I was looking for a partner for life not just a one time thing or short term. So I join, start browsing profiles, create my own, start talking with people, find friends, even though I knew most I talked with it wouldn't work or we didn't match in what we were looking for it was nice making a friend and discussing life, someone to bitch about the daily grind, or maybe a problem with. I wrote some blogs about my past submissive, some about my life, some of my opinion or just life in general, I enjoy writing it gives me a way to release the turbulence of thoughts always running thru my mind. So one evening while on this site I get a message from my lioness, I had seen and read her profile and as I told her I thought she sounded angry and I thought she was too young for me. We sent messages at first, then step up to pm's on the site, she said I could call her if i wanted and gave me her number. That was a phone call I will never forget, my nickname was jabber jaws as a child, I like to talk part of being hyper but that particular night we talked for 16 hours. The talks got more frequent then daily, my family got a well deserved break from me for awhile, we finally decided on her coming for a visit in July of last year, after that I flew to Maryland and we drove back. Last October we got married, something that I swore I would never do again but she is my beautiful soulmate I can't imagine my life without her. She woke up a little bit ago while I was writing this, had a bad dream and her leg was bothering her. I comforted her best I could, tucked her back into bed with her stuffy and hope she sleeps without any interruptions. It's just shy of one year we met and come October it will be our 1 year wedding anniversary, it all seems unreal she makes me so happy, she takes care of me even though my mindset is I can take care of myself it's my job to take care of her. So as I started this blog time is magical in if you're happy, things are going well it flys by as they say but if you're unhappy of life is beating you down it seams to drag by so ever slowly. My advice, find what makes you happy, content and fulfilled time will race by, don't let things drag time like and anchor stuck in the mud. To everyone best wishes, big air hug for now, lots of love. Lion and his beautiful Hazel.