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Adine's thoughts

This is where I go to rant or rave.
Sometimes one may get a glimpse into my mind to see how I think.
1 year ago. September 14, 2023 at 4:34 PM

As dominants, what do you look for in an s-type? 

Men, what do you look for in a woman? 

What makes you look take one look at a message or profile and say "Nope", and why?

Literate Lycan​(dom male) - Friendship. Something compatible. Would I be able to enjoy a long, deep conversation regarding any topic with this person? Do we have similar beliefs in how a dynamic and life should be enjoyed?

If in reading their profile, I deduce they are the exact opposite of me, then how can it be yes. Not that it’s nope, but it isn’t an immediate yes. There have been a few profiles that were intriguing but wound up ending with some indication wherein I can tell where they lean in politics or current agendas across the US and I realize as much as I might then interesting to a point, they would no doubt find reason to despise me . . . So the nope is more for their benefit than mine, if that makes sense.
1 year ago
Jack in the box -
Too broad of a subject to broach with a simple . . .
My first thought - "what do I look for in women?"
my dick!
?
ok ok
I dont look at an s type as an s type - I look at her as a fellow human being - the D/s will happen organically if the chemestry is there.
Thats when you know.
There are certain up front que's that can/will tell you "nope, not for me".
But I try to always be open to possibily
1 year ago
B L O N D I E​(sub female) - Good one, Jack.
1 year ago
Jack in the box -
*possibility - you know what I meant ?
1 year ago
WhatamIfightingfor​(dom male)​{CurvyB} - I know I look for honesty, integrity, intelligence, confidence. She knows she is still growing and finding herself, and knows her limits. Is not spooked by someone knowing something, or having a difrent opinion when her opinion and knowledge are respected. Understands people make mistakes, communication is not perfect, and it is what one does about mistakes, and works on improving communication.

As for the nos, the opposite of this.
1 year ago

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