Unconditional Love

I have been on the Cage for many many years and I have had conversations with so many of you about so many different topics both private and personal and general things as well. I was a member before my wife passed away and a big part of my grieving process happened right here. I've been touched by so many of you over the years with support and love and kindness with very few negative experiences. I've been blessed to find love here, long lasting love, from lifelong friends to insatiable, inseparable forever love. So today I wish to thank everyone here that have touched me along the way and remind you how special you have been to my journey and how much of myself I have given to enhance your journey in some way. I'd like to ask all of you who I have touched in some way, however small or a friendship of many years, to leave me a message here and maybe even pay this message of thanks forward to other people on the Cage  that have touched your journey in  some way.  I am thankful for all the blessings I have in my life and grateful for the blessings I've received here along the way. This place can be so much more than just a website for hookups and for me anyways it has been a blessing.

Happy Thanksgiving

Robert

Well here goes nothing as I join the band wagon

1. I had sex with my wife on a secluded beach in Puerto Rico one night only to be inerupted by a some wild dogs.

THIS IS TOTALLY TRUE. IT WAS ONE OF THOSE SPUR OF THE MOMENT MOMENTS TOTALLY INTERUPTED BY A WILD DOGS. RUNNING BACK TO OUR ROOM AT THE RESORT FOR COMPLETION WE DEFINITELY REALIZED WE HAD SAND AND STUFF IN EVERY ORIFACE IF OUR BODIES AND IT WAS QUITE UNPLEASANT. NEVER TRIED THAT AGAIN BUT MY SON WAS CONCEIVED SOON AFTER! 

2. For the first 57 years of my life I only slept with one women

IF YOU READ MY PROFILE AND DID SOME MATH YOUD REALIZE I MET MY WIFE AT 17 AND NEW HER FOR 40 YEARS SO  THE FIRST 57 YEARS OF MY LIFE I ONLY HAD SEX WITH ONE WOMAN.....THIS IS TRUE

3. I recently  took someone fishing on my boat and they wound up giving me a blow job.

ALTHOUGH I HAVE INVITED SEVERAL KINKY AQUAINTANCES TO GO FISHING ON MY BOAR WITH ME ON MY BOAT AND THEY HAVE ACTUALLY OFFERED TO SATASFY ME ORALLY I FISH IN A VERY PUBLIC PLACE AND DO NOT WISH TO BE ARRESTED SO I HAD TO DECLINE SO THIS IS A LIE......

CONGATS TO ANGELWINGS FOR THE ONLY CORRECT RESPONSE

A lot has been written here about unconditional love and how it applies to any kind of relationship we have. I only speak of this through my own experiences and my observations of others and not in the abstract because unconditional love is what I offer all my close friends and especially in my relationships. Once I can look into the eyes of my partner and say " I love You" it is unconditional love.  I don't take those words lightly and will delay saying them until I am sure but once they are spoken it is sealed in my heart and you will get unconditional love from me. What that means is that from that day forward no matter what happens between us I will always love you that way and nothing you do.....no  circumstances could ever change the way I feel about them or break us up(with the exception of murder) . Working through everything, no matter what is the very definition of unconditional love and .....that our love is so strong nothing can ever break us apart and everything can be worked out no matter what.  Anything short of that is not unconditional love and to offer that to another only to have a condition break you apart  is nothing short of lying to your partner and to yourself.  When you are given unconditional love you are free to be yourself and express everything that is on your mind with no fear of breaking up. It is truly the healthiest place a relationship.can be. People use the term unconditional love to freely and that diminishes its meaning when you really count on it to keep your relationship together and strong. If you don't mean it, don't say it. Many relationships survive without it....that is with a condition that is a deal breaker ....but once you say it you better mean it because if a condition arises and causes one to break up with the other it will be a total blindside that will scar the other for the rest of their life. The feeling you get from a love that was promised unconditionally and then pulled out from under you can be too much to bare. The ironic thing about when someone breaks up with you after promising unconditional love is that the other still gives their unconditional love back because their promises of unconditional love and their feelings have not changed towards that person  and wanting to work things out is what they try to instinctively do and this makes moving on so much more difficult.