Now that I have everyone’s attention, why is it that when it’s made very clear no sex is to be had, and the person claims to agree and want to be friends also to build trust, they disappear after being told no sex of any kind, including FaceTime?
Is it the thrill of the chase? Is it the predator hunting his prey? Is it the lie about what you want and then try to change their mind and you get what you want?
What ever happened to being genuine, open, and honest? Especially in this lifestyle where there is so much at risk, stake and involved? Yes, I do believe there is. What we experience and share is so much greater and deeper than an ordinary vanilla relationship. We put our mental, emotional and physical health into someone’s hands.
For me, it’s not all about the sex. I have an extremely high drive, but I exercise self-control. I am not going to put myself in harms way or jeopardize or compromise myself for a good fuck! That may be the case for some, and everyone’s motives and intentions are different, but for Pete’s sake tell the person what they are and don’t lie or mislead.
I’m starting to conclude that being here is no different than being in the vanilla world when it comes to finding someone compatible with the same interests. At the end, seems like sex is all they want. They tell you want you want to hear until they get what they want or disappear when they don’t. Oh, and yes, I do know this is a sex website...but, if that’s all your looking for and want, say so and don’t contact me. Read my profile thoroughly, I am very clear in what I am looking for.
The only sex I will be having is going to be with myself, so don’t ask. It’s a turn off when people disrespect my wishes.
TGIFF!!!
