I discovered while talking with a couple of people what I NEED and it’s a Dom who IS mature, experienced AND also an Alpha male in real life, not just a Dom behind closed doors. I need Him to be on equal footings with me outside of the dynamic. I am a strong independent woman where I take charge both in my personal and professional life that I don’t need, correction, want to do it also in any relationship as well...been there, don’t that. I don’t need to be micromanaged, nor do I need 24/7. I need a man to be a man both in and outside of the bedroom, who respects me both as a submissive and a woman, who has his own life in order and can take the lead when necessary who is Confident and assertive, but not arrogant or conceited. A gentleman and a Dom all wrapped up in one ;)
Sometimes, when getting to know someone, you start off great with the same interests, wants and have the same needs but along the way, you discover that although you want the same, you are on different paths on meeting those needs and you learn more of what You truly desire in the person you are in search of. You learn more about yourself and who you want to be able to fulfill those needs. It becomes clear as day as to who you really want.
Another experience to be had...time to move on.
UPDATE:
FYI...not interested in pursuing anything with anyone at this point. If you would like to talk, I will welcome friendly conversations.