Other folx may be miserable and lonely but I'm surrounded by my Beloved and our brand new puppy and my life couldn't be better. I'm a leader in my Leather community, killing it in my career, and am wrapped in the love of my beautiful, diverse, community.
This site (it's not a community, by any means) actually is important to me because it's where I met my Beloved and it saddens me that a bunch of folx with views that do not align with the spirit of kink (ummm thank your queer and trans ancestors for the openness of kink or quit co-opting your fictitious views of "old guard" and Leather). I hate that new trans folx might come on here and have to read threads poking fun at how they identify, or expect them to constantly do the labor of teaching about themselves. I'm called entitled but I'm not the one asking people to designate what's between their legs with an acronym. Cishetero folx have no right to ask this and can kindly keep their ignorance in their PMs or blogs.
I might come off as an asshole, but I'm an asshole who cares a lot more about the lives of my trans and queer siblings than your cishetero feelings.
So, I'll continue living my beautiful life and pitying those whose lives suck so much that they have nothing better to do than come on here and spew hate.
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