5 years ago. August 15, 2019 at 9:48 PM
When I was in my 30s and 40s, thoughts of how the D/s dynamic would be later in life never crossed my mind. When you’re in a D/s marriage or committed relationship, it’s not such a big deal as both parties age together. But when you’re an older dominant or submissive looking for a particular type of person, preconceived notions, assumptions, and judgments can make it difficult. My perspective as a dominant woman now, at the age of 64, is much different than it was 10 or 20 years ago, in a completely positive way. I'll be blogging about some of these issues over the next weeks. Questions and comments will be warmly welcomed.