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My perspective has changed over the years. We all learn and evolve and hopefully become our best selves. I’m glad my journey has brought me here.
5 years ago. August 15, 2019 at 9:48 PM

When I was in my 30s and 40s, thoughts of how the D/s dynamic would be later in life never crossed my mind.  When you’re in a D/s marriage or committed relationship, it’s not such a big deal as both parties age together.  But when you’re an older dominant or submissive looking for a particular type of person, preconceived notions, assumptions, and judgments can make it difficult. My perspective as a dominant woman now, at the age of 64, is much different than it was 10 or 20 years ago, in a completely positive way.  I'll be blogging about some of these issues over the next weeks. Questions and comments will be warmly welcomed. 

ZaftigV​(switch female){sub matt} - Looking forward to it!
5 years ago
Bunnie - Great topic! Thank you for bringing this to light. Although I’m only still in my thirties, this is something I have thought about a bit. It will be great to hear from your experiences, thank you :)
5 years ago
Bella duPuy​(sub female){Not lookin} - Awesome!! i am, greatly, looking forward to Your blogs!
As a sub (of a certain age), i'd be lying if i said that this has not crossed my mind ... many, many times.
Thank You for setting the stage for presentation; i await Your voice.
5 years ago
Finished​(switch female) - Thank you for this! ☺️
5 years ago
Antoniii​(switch male) - What do you feel it is to be dominant now
6 months ago

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