Online now
Online now

Safe Haven

My perspective has changed over the years. We all learn and evolve and hopefully become our best selves. I’m glad my journey has brought me here.
5 years ago. August 30, 2019 at 1:04 PM

 

A sub who is collared or otherwise contracted or committed is technically the property of the dominant (at least in my House). I expect my property to be maintained to the best of its ability.  The sub starts following these guidelines even before consideration  

If a sub tells me they are overweight or out of shape, we design a better eating plan and choose appropriate activity. Weekly tai chi classes are required. (It is the best way to maintain balance and focus, especially as we get older.). Progress is journaled and proof provided. 

All regular and age appropriate medical appts must be kept, including primary care visits, vision, hearing, every 6 month dental, podiatry, and age appropriate tests such as colonoscopy and bone density, if needed. Adequate health insurance is required. 

Last will and testament and living will is required. (I am neither a representative nor a beneficiary.)

Healthy relationships are to be maintained with relatives, coworkers, friends, etc.  If there are rifts or dysfunction in the family, I will set up counseling. 

A physically and emotionally healthy sub is my main priority. 

Litlegrl​(sub female){Dragon11} - While very strict and intense, it proves your desire to care for your sub(s). This is a great standard. Thank you for sharing
5 years ago
MsHaven​(dom female) - Once I’ve trained a sub and invested all that time, I expect him/her to live a long time. :)
5 years ago
Satindragon{Not Lookin} - A healthy lifestyle applies to all ages.
5 years ago
MsHaven​(dom female) - Of course. However, my blog posts currently focus on the aging sub who may not be thinking they are no longer physically or otherwise able to serve.
5 years ago
honeyswhore{Callie} - All sounds good. No point starting a relationship that may end suddenly due to avoidable health issues.
5 years ago

You must be registered and signed in to comment


Register Sign in