This friendship lasted over 20 years. The first time we where invited to their home and was introduced to Dena my sir was in a state and so was I we had no idea that you could have more then one sub and keep them both happy. But when he saw sirs playroom we both almost came. He told us the only reason he could do it was because of the way he designed the home he bought two houses and combined them into one so instead of connecting the basements he left them separate so had one side for the kids and one side for adult play. Before this all important first gathering I got a call from Jane and was filled in to proper attire expected of the subs attending and if i needed help to swing by her office and we would go shopping together so that I made the best impression as my sirs sub so we went shopping this is were I learned just how important and comfortable well fitted undies were. About 3 hrs before we were ready to leave my sir came into our bedroom took a knee and held up a box to me and said wife will you give me the honor of wearing my collar (men they have no idea of timing and the effect they have on us). So I arrived with my eyes slightly swollen with tears my eye make-up slightly mussed and proudly wearing my first collar when Jane opened the door one look and she knew as well as every other sub at the party it was my first collar. I then disrobed took my sirs arm and walked into the party Jane introduced us at the entry. And we then attended our first formal introduction to our lifestyle.
I will now share with you the single most important lesson I learned that night.
love shared is not love divided it is love multiplied.
That night I learned another aspect of my particular needs public humiliation was something I enjoyed being in a room almost naked in front of complete strangers was the start of it and it was unbelievable I felt myself enter into that zone almost from the beginning being leered at by men was for me an orgasmic ride in candy-land and reinstalled in me a sense of the power of woman hood that I really enjoyed and needed after becoming a mother finding out that I still had it was so enjoyable and the look of pride on my sir's face just told me how he felt about it. next my next first.