Hi, for you new readers to our blog my name is Deb's not my real name but close enough for Blogging. It was suggested i.e., ordered to wright something about agape and its relationship to me. This will not be about Sir James and me I have already done a blog on that. this is about my current Sir. Tim and how I fell in love with him.
As many know I started my adult life as a card-carrying Dyke I met my life partner Sue in the military she was everything I lacked beautiful, outgoing, and emotionally verry strong she was also very bi, and she made it plain she was not going to give up men completely. Yes, it took me time to kill the green-eyed monster that dwelled in me, but she made it easy for me by always including me in her conquests and making sure the male knew I was off limits to his touch. Because of this I saw the joy she got when a man entered her. And she always said it was better for her when I was there, as I said we were young and really did not know what we had was agape and what she got from him was sex.
We first met our current Sir when he was a 16-year-old man and yes, I mean MAN to see what I mean see our blog (chapter 3 responsibility it contains part of his early life, and you will understand). he was not yet a gentleman still ruff around the edge but well on his way, both of us were impressed with him and could tell with time he would be a force in his own right. In a way we should have known he would be ours's in time since both Jane and Sir James always looked ahead and planed ahead. Over time a deep friendship developed between the three of us. when Mari and Jill claimed him as their Dom and brought him back to the main ranch, we were happy to see him again. when Mari gave the nod of O.K. Sue leapt like a starving wolf not that I blamed her, having learned that I to need a Dom to make Shure I kept on track in my life, I kept myself open gave him a chance, but I was to be earned and it had been 7 years since we had seen each other.
God, he started slowly with us both too slow for Sue but just right for me. It started with reestablishing the deep friendship we one had this took a few months until sue could not stand it and she asked him for sex came to me and said to me "Deb's sue just asked me to make love with her and you know our lifestyle means for me to take her as my sub it can be no other way. But she is your partner, and I will come between you or even appear that way." His respect for me made that little bell all women have inside them went off with a single chime and halfway there to earning me as more than a friend. And it stayed there until the day he came into our office and just took me I wrote about that previously a while ago and it was the trigger for me this time it left me needing more of this new man in my life and I got it. He had earned my respect and then my love because of it. Debs had found a new owner of her hart and along with that my bodies use. the way a true Dom should with respect and care for its use.
shit that was hard to wright but also a great relief also love Deb's
