Sadie's Sweets

Just when I think I know my kinky self I surprise me. I've always been interested in hypnosis, even since I was a little girl, so it should come as no surprise that I'm currently immersing myself in erotic hypnosis. And yet... here I am surprised.

I'm about to achieve my hypnosis practitioner certificate and I'm quite excited. I've learned quite a bit and have even more to learn which is just fun and even more fun!

I did delve into erotic hypnosis a few years ago but it didn't really end up too well. Now I know some of what to watch out for and how to make it good for myself and others.

Who else has found a new fetish interest lately?

I'm doing some recording in the home studio on Friday so I thought I'd have some fun and tack on an "Ask Me Anything!" 

Here are the rules:

1. Direct message your question to me.

2. I retain the right to refuse to answer any questions(it is after all "ask me anything" not "answer everything" lol).

3. By Direct messaging your question you consent to have it read, recorded, and broadcast.

4. Only questions will be read, no names.

5. One question per Direct Message.

Questions can be anything from "what can I put on my profile to attract a certain type" to "what is the best way to market my kinky business".

I'll answers as many questions as I can/choose in a 30-minute recording and then post it for all to listen to.

Don't be shy! If you've got a question, someone else probably has the same question too but is too shy to ask!

Happy Asking!

Check out the latest episode of Talkin' Taboo Podcast by clicking the link or search for it wherever you love to listen to podcasts, like iTunes, etc.

Sade Von Masoch joins us to talk about professional domination, performance art, modeling, and exploring kink at public events. Discover a whole new world of celebrating your BDSM and Fetish!

Sade Von Masoch has been in the BDSM scene for over 20 years, trained as a slave and progressed through to being a professional and capable dominatrix. For the past 5 years, she has collaborated and hosted Buffalo’s only public fetish night at Mohawk Place and performs at The Underground Nightclub. You can message her directly for details on upcoming shows or to book a session on Facebook or by checking out her website www.sadevonmasoch.com. Remember, play nice and say please!

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Day 5 – Genitals (anus, cock, clit, balls, vagina, etc.)

See Day 1 for Challenge details: https://thecage.co/blog/userblog.php?postid=10840&blog_id=6588

I love my vagina because it is tight. I don’t know why, but if I’m forced to go two weeks without sex it tightens up again – like a virgin for sure!

Day 4 – Torso (belly, back, chest, breasts, nipples, etc.)

See Day 1 for Challenge details: https://thecage.co/blog/userblog.php?postid=10840&blog_id=6588

I love the underside of my breasts because they are so deliciously sensitive and give me great pleasure when my lover kisses and licks me there!

Day 3 – Head (tongue, lips, hair, eyes, nose, etc.)

See Day 1 for Challenge details: https://thecage.co/blog/userblog.php?postid=10840&blog_id=6588

I love my lips because I use them to feel the texture of my lover’s skin… all over their body!

Day 2 – Legs (thighs, calves, feet, knees, etc.)

See Day 1 for Challenge details: https://thecage.co/blog/userblog.php?postid=10840&blog_id=6588

I love my feet because they are very flexible. What I can do with my hands I can also do with my toes, - wink, wink.

By all means, if you don’t feel comfortable posting on a public post and still want to share, PM me! Share in the way that makes you feel most comfortable! Feel free to copy and paste this on your own page, write in the comments, PM me or someone else.

5 Day Body Positivity Challenge – Fetish Style!

Let’s get positive about our bodies and all the fetish fun they can bring us! Each day we’ll focus on a region of our body. Pick a part of that region and share why you love it – fetish style!

Day 1 – Arms (hands, fingers, forearms, shoulders, etc.)

Day 2 – Legs (thighs, calves, feet, knees, etc.)

Day 3 – Head (tongue, lips, hair, eyes, nose, etc.)

Day 4 – Torso (belly, back, chest, breasts, nipples, etc.)

Day 5 – Genitals (anus, cock, clit, balls, vagina, etc.)

Feel free to copy and paste to your own page or answer in the comments.

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What I love about my body today:

Day 1 – Arms (hands, fingers, forearms, shoulders, etc.)

I love my elbows because I can press them deeply into my bottom’s bottom or back in delicious sadistic massage!

If I'm going to be honest, my interest in Tantra developed back when I was in junior high school. Unfortunately, I lived in a super conservative region and my interest in Tantra was by far suppressed by my terror of it. As a matter of fact, everything sexual terrified me. I began to become desensitized to that terror as I grew in my Pagan practices. I read and learned about sex magic although still to this day I've never actually tried any per se. Throughout the years I've revisited my interest in Tantra with bursts of intense study. Especially at the Rochester Erotic Arts Festival where nearly every year there is at least one class on Tantra.

Empty Gas Tank

In the last quarter of 2017, I found my energy levels being at their lowest in a long time. As I searched online for inspiration, meditation was a recommendation as always. However, meditation to relax was not what I needed. What I really needed was meditation for energy. And once again I stumbled across teachings I had already studied in Qi Gong only this time I tripped across an article talking about raising your Kundalini to give you energy. While familiar with yoga, chakras, and Tantra I didn't really discover Kundalini until the past couple of years. Delving more deeply into it I began to practice some meditation and yoga at the end of last year.

Reaping The Rewards

I'm certainly feeling the benefits of doing Kundalini yoga and meditation. Definitely more energy. I'm very excited about it and as I continue to learn more about it I'm going to incorporate it into my BDSM practice. Additionally, the Buddhist mindset that sometimes comes along with yoga and meditation has really enabled me to get to through some difficult times in the past few weeks by remaining "present and in the moment". It's definitely been an all-encompassing beneficial success.

Energy Work and BDSM

I'm no stranger to energy work. From working with meditation and energy in my youth through Qi Gong with martial arts in my adulthood I've enjoyed the benefits of energy work even though I haven't applied them to sex or BDSM. I have, however, worked with several clients when I was doing Pro work and partners when I wasn't that participated in BDSM for more of a spiritual experience than a sexual one. They relished enjoying the endorphins brought on from the pain and feeling stronger post scene. I'm really looking forward to bringing energy work as well as some Tantra inspired practices to my BDSM. I can't wait to see what happens in the future!

What about you? Have you ever Incorporated spirituality, Tantra, meditation, or energy work into your BDSM? What works for you?

In a recent podcast titled Long Distance Relationships, we had a discussion about how it's better to not “cheat” on your long-distance Top by trying to skip out on the tasks that they have assigned you. This brings to mind the old saying: “garbage in, garbage out”. I think this can be applied to everything across your life. You reap what you sow, but it’s also true that the more time and devotion you use to tend your garden the higher the yield.

Each Exquisite Detail

When you spend time planning for your scene and adding special elements, I find that it's far more satisfying than pick up play. Don't get me wrong there's a time and a place for a quick, rough fuck and a spontaneous scene. However, there's an equally delicious yet different satisfaction in experiencing a scene for which we have planned for and nurtured in great detail.

Building Excitement 

Just thinking about the scene I may have in the near future starts to get me excited as the anticipation smolders. Carefully planning and crafting expectations is an intense pleasure its own right. I think I even get the benefit of the hormones of excitement if what they say is true, that the mind can’t tell the difference between what is imagined and what is real.

When The Moment Arrives

When the moment arrives for the scene to begin in the flesh, setting it up becomes a ritual. Experts say that things are better after a ritual. Birthday Cake is said to taste better after singing “Happy Birthday” according to researchers. Who am I to argue with experts? Setting each implement in its place in preparation for play is the ritual that makes my play so much the sweeter.

Like Foreplay To Orgasm

A week of teasing and innuendo makes me higher than anyone might believe. Then when it’s time to dive into the scene…it is like the ultimate orgasm. Gods I love to take my time!

What about you? Do you like it hard and fast or excruciatingly planned out? Let me know in the comments!