Sadie's Sweets

“Oh, Sadie…you smell so good!”

These are words I love to hear. Especially after I’ve just hugged someone. Scenting your hair is one of the 64 Arts of the Kama Sutra and one that I adore These Arts are not exclusive to women only. I, for one, truly appreciate a man who smells divine. There was a client at a place I worked once who could make all the women swoon just by walking in. I can still smell it now when I think about it.

There’s An Art To It

Anyone can hose themselves down with the latest fragrance. But to truly build a scent takes experience and practice. I coordinate my fragrance like a fashion model coordinates her makeup with her outfit. For me, it all starts with the fragrance of my shower soap. I select fruit flavored soaps. Sometimes citrus and sometimes berry. These gentle smells give me a scent of fresh clean girl.

Choosing By Mood

What comes next depends in part on the season and my mood. I have three main scent profiles:

Naughty? Me?

Another Day In The Dungeon

And

I Crave.

Depending on my mood I select a base perfume and anoint my hair, breasts, bottom, and nether regions with it. This base perfume mixes with my body chemistry creating a wanton musk that can only be a fragrance of me. Last I may add some floral lotions that are very light in fragrance.

Layering scents like this is an exquisite pleasure for me and the person who hugs me as well. Sometimes, people hug me longer just to breath in my fragrance…and feel my body against them.

What sensual pleasures do you enjoy? Let me know in the comments!

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That title is exactly what I texted to somebody the other day. That got me thinking that I had not actually seen my dick in a long time. So, I went to the side of the bed rummaged round through my bag of naughty toys and whipped my dick out. It was an amazing sight to behold.

I love my dick. It's big and it's red. The ultimate in red rocket perfection.  I should probably call her Big Red. From what I've heard she’s got a pretty nice head on her. I am especially fond of the heart-shaped pad over which the O ring is that holds the cock part in place is located. It makes me think warm and fuzzy loving thoughts.

There's a lot of things I can do with my dick. Of course, I can fuck people with it and that is always fun (more on those tales another day). That's what we do with a dick right? If I'm in the right mood I can strap that strap-on to my forehead and be a unicorn. A unicorn with a cherry red horn who can tell people to suck her dick.

I can also send people unsolicited dick pics. I mean really, why not? The ladies love dick pics right?  So, the day after I got my dick out of the bag by my bed I started sending people unsolicited dick pics. It made me pretty happy. I send them to guys and gals. I was a little crushed when one of the responses was “cute!”. So emasculating!

I even sent myself a dick pic of my own dick just so I could get the image here for you to look at! From now on, whenever a guy sends me a dick pic, I’m going to send him one right back. Yeah, baby! Power to my penis!

Do you have dick/strap-on? Why or why not? What do you do with your dick? Tell me in the comments!

Sometimes, you gotta take it where you can get it. Today is one of those days. I find that I can feed my inner sadist with sips of sadistic joy that can be obtained from the vanilla world. For example. I'm a teacher (of adults). Sometimes I need to teach something my students do not like. I can't help but smile. I get to torture them with topics and sometimes that's what I need to keep me going in between play sessions.

Where do you get your kink highs when you can't actually kink?

Just a little PSA!

If someone is writes you and says that they are so-and-so's friend and they'd love to play...

Make sure you check back with so-and-so to find out info and ensure that this reference is legit.

And if you're the one giving the reference...make sure it's ok to use someone's name before you do. Otherwise, you could end up with a very, very negative referal.

Stay safe!

I had to meet my new primary care this week. It's always a nerve-wracking experience. I tell my doctor the truth about my lifestyle and I always worry about rejection. So far the response has always been good. 

I had a BDSM emergency once.  We'd done everything right and I still ended up with a hematoma in my breast from some heavy-duty biting play. I had to go in on a sick visit covered in bruises and of course the big-ass lump in my breast.

Knowing about my BDSM activity and lifestyle before something went wrong means that my doctor did not feel the need to call the police. This not only protected my Top, it kept me out of hours of “counseling” where a social worker would try to get me to admit “abuse”.

Tell your doctors what you do, kinksters. It’s the responsible and safe thing to do!

Today my thoughts have been focused on how much I love anal. I know that it's not quite what you think of as a fetish at first, but so many people avoid it as a forbidden zone. You know, "exit only".

I love it as an enterance...

The rabid moans I make when I feel my ass being anally penetrated are completely primal and arouse me. Having my as be stuffed full of long thick cock is a pleasure beyond words. 

I like to play coy at first, a little reluctant. And then to feel that powerful pressure at the door to my darkest opening...

so delightful!

I don't think that I really identify as Little or Middle. Although I do think of myself as a big kid trying to fake being an adult. lol. I do like all the cutesy things though. I like them, and I don't care what you need to call me in order for me to play with them. I'm in! My Little Pony? Fluttershy and PinkiePie baby! Anything and everything Kawaii - and oooooo the Gothic Lolita look. I love me some of that.

It does feel kind of weird in a way through. I'm just me, playing with my toys. I don't revert or regress. 

Maybe I just never quite grew up!

What do you think? Do you love and play with all the toys?

Get anything kinky over the winter holidays? Sexy Solstice prezzies? I got a stuffie that appeals to my inner sweet tooth. I'm pretty tickled with what I gave though... I gave my lover three different copies of the pop-up Kama Sutra. Yes! Pop up sexiness!! Tell me what you got or gave in the comments! Share!!!

Discovering the joys of the Korean scrub bath has been an amazing experience for me. Abrasion play is my happy place and I love it. Specifically I love receiving it. I've had a lot of fun trying out my Korean scrub bath towels and now I'm going to try out my Korean scrub bath mitts.

Not only is it a wonderful Sensation that I can use to send myself into Subspace and a happy floaties place. But it makes my butt nice and smooth. You should go on to Amazon and order some cloths for yourself and try it out. It could be fun using it for masturbation with the male member whether you're doing it yourself or having someone do it to you. If you try that let me know how it goes!

I love safety. It makes me very, very wet. Want to know why? I'm going to tell you anyway.

Safety makes me wet because when I have all my safety checks set in place I am completely free to let myself go and push my bottom's limits to the extreme. When everything is prepared and in place and there is a "Plan B" ready to go in case something goes wrong I can truly relax and let my sadistic creativity rule my mind and ride my body.

Safety is the foundation on which I build my riskiest play. And knowing that I have all safety measures in place I can truly let my wicked side soar.