2 kink skills I'll get better at: erotic hypnosis & playing with fear
0 one thing to do less of: give time to people who don't support me
2 things to learn more about: the science behind kinking & different kink thought leaders/influencers
1 new kink to try: self micro branding!
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So there I was watching the with ads video Texas Chainsaw Massacre when the first ad that popped up was for a kids' movie. The algorithm knows too much...
Reviewing an awesome short BDSM movie called "Marcy Learns Something New" by Omleto.
Review and link to movie found here:
There so much I love in here from accurate teaching to a stellar portrayal of how Kink /BDSM / Fetish happens. It makes it look glamourous without stereotyping it.
TENS electrode pad hack that can lead to better TENS orgasms!
Just a quick vulva sketch for my TENS electrode placement video coming soon!
There’s been good times in the lifestyle and bad times in the lifestyle for me and mine, and I keep coming back for more. What brings me back? Two main things.
Communication
I love all of the communication that goes into make relationships work in the lifestyle. Earning trust and sharing experiences.
Acceptance
In the greater world of kink there is a place for everyone no matter who or what you are or like.
Check out the video for more of my thoughts!
What a ride making this video was!
Hygiene
Since our focus is on playing with yourself I didn’t go through my usual cautions regarding hygiene. As always make sure everything is nice and clean. You can order disposable, single-use cups if you want to play with other people and want to ensure your set is for you only. Additionally, if you fluid bond to your cups, it’s best for your partner to have their own set. They’re very affordable so why not! The more the merrier!
Hygiene 2
The performance of the cups surprised me in the video. When I tested them previously their grip wasn’t as tight after the same amount of pumps. Right before taking the video showered and exfoliated with my favorite . Result: exfoliation increases the performance of the cups!
I especially love the metal pressure points that these cups have. They add an extra “pain” that feels so good! I got a little distracted making the video with the cup on my arm! Imagine if I had it somewhere else!!!
Enjoy getting kinky with yourself!
The video:
I spoke a length with a friend who is living lockdown alone and I really feel for people in that position. There have been times in my life whether a partner has been ill or I've been alone that I've had to solo kink and take care of my own business. It's something that is never far from my mind and I like to think up new ways that I (or others) can kink alone.
Abrasion Play is my favorite to receive and really I can never get enough. Sometimes I have to stop because the skin can only take so much. :-(
I make a little video of two of my favorite abrasion play supplies and you can find it here:
