Part 1: https://thecage.co/blog/userblog.php?postid=56403&blog_id=6588
A few weeks ago a dear friend sent me this link and asked my thoughts:
https://slate.com/human-interest/2021/01/husband-declared-adult-genre-off-limits-sex-advice.html
I spent sometime considering the article and then wrote out a long thoughtful response to the problem presented in the article. Here it is:
First of all, I think it's right to honor and respect that the husband doesn't want to watch any more hentai. He certainly shouldn't be forced. She shouldn't puppy-dog him about it either.
Personally, for me not watching any hentai at all because a lot of them have rape in them is like saying I'm not watching any detective shows anymore ever because most of them have murder in them. I'm against both rape and murder even though I enjoy them in fantasy settings.
It's fantasy. It's not reality. If anything, we need to do a lot more teaching on how movies aren't real. I have to explain how no, that doesn't happen in America because you saw it in a move, to my students all the time. And Disney Princesses are kinda dangerous for young girls. Although they've been working on that.
All that being said, there's a fair amount of consensual hentai of all genres out there. Yes, even tentacle lovin' ladies and guys. I know because I run into it more than I'd like to. lol. (I'm much more into the non-con).
If I were giving advice to her, I'd suggest locating tentacle rape hentai created by women. That would be an empowering example of women owning their rape fantasies, fantasies that both the op and her husband enjoy.
What do you think?
