Gooey with post scene happiness my sub slides off the cross into the warm embrace of the blanket I’ve prepared for her. We cuddle and caress each other while cooing reassurances that follow a successful scene. Aftercare is the third act grand finally of Kinky play. There are so many things which I love about it and here are just a few.
Cuddling
I love to cuddle. Physical closeness is important to me after play and aftercare holds space for it. Skin on skin, whether romantic or platonic strengthens my connection with my partner and gives us a chance to bask in the afterglow of a great scene. Arms intertwined and sweaty together, we can relax as two halves of one whole. Physical closeness helps to equalize your body after play while preparing you for your return to the mundane world. Like a magical seal, cuddling during aftercare allows the good feelings to sink into you and stay.
Reassurance
Aftercare is the perfect post scene time to reassure my sub that they’ve pleased me while they reassure me that I delivered a skillful scene. Tops, subs, and everyone in-between need aftercare. Whether it’s to be assured that no, you’re not a monster for delivering that delicious beating or yes you did in fact, please me, aftercare is a need that can be experienced by all. Additionally, whether people want to admit it or not, they like to be reassured.
Preparing For Re-entry
The highs of a fantastic scene are indeed blissful. Returning to mundane life? Not so much. Aftercare eases the transition from the high point to the baseline of everyday life. From drinking water and having a snack to help equalize the adrenaline rush to having quiet time to reflect on the wonders of your scene, after care helps creates an easier path to reenter normalcy.
What do you like about aftercare? Feel free to share with me in the comments below!
