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Sadie's Sweets

Wicked and sweet thoughts of a sadist.
2 years ago. April 5, 2023 at 5:26 PM

When entering a scene, it can be good to let go and be fully yourself. What’s one thing you let go of?

 

I let go of societal and my own preconceived notions of how a Domme “should” be and let my natural dominance flow.

 

What about you?

What do you let go of?

What would you like to let go of in the future?

K y i v​{Walking} - Sadie, of course, like you, I have a map of the scene, what I wish to convey, what I wish them to feel. Physically and emotionally.

That said, as the scene progresses I like to let go, soak in the energy exchange.. Feel what they feel. Go with that exchange to provide what it may reveal.

Back off if I feel a negative reaction. Dicuss it even, in a whisper.

I find I must let go of the physical and embrace the energy being exchanged.

If course consent and negotiation is done prior to any scene.
2 years ago
SassyInName​(sub female) - I let go of judgement of myself. Including judging my instincts and reactions.
2 years ago
GiannaRay​(sub female) - I would like to let go of self consciousness of my body, and doubt.
2 years ago
Bunnie - I love that for you. I have many female dominant friends who struggle with this also, so it is really beautiful to see when they can step into their true selves and allow that power to shine through.


“What do you let go of?”

I let go of the need to analyse… that’s the most precious part for an overthinker like me.

“What would you like to let go of in the future?”

I am learning to let go of my own stories about myself. The little things people have told me I am or am not throughout my life that I have believed and carried as truths. To surrender into allowing the person I know exists inside, to surface and be “seen” by another.
2 years ago
sexycurves​(sub female) - Good questions. I'll have to think about the answers that I imagine to be the truth, although in reality they will present themselves at the scene.
2 years ago

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