Sadie's Sweets

sexycurves​(sub female) - it's not really something i've thought about. definitely the consent bit that you mention - totally agree. now you've given me something to ponder on

SirsBabyDoll​(sub female)​{Pizza+☕} - It may be that when people in the vanilla world push you like that, it runs your dominant side and THATS why it feels like a violation of consent.

MsDove​(sub female)​{Eternal Pi} - Consent from a different perspective: Until I got to the point in my life where I truly understood that I am always at choice... and not doing what I thought I "should" do and/or not trying to make someone else happy, my consent would have meant nothing. Alot of women have a hard time clearly vocalizing their "no." In other areas of my life, I have agreed to something when my answer was really "no." It took me a long time to find my way to understanding what it was I really want and to speak my truth, even if it was unpopular.

aPeepingMom​(sub female) - My Sir has given me a rule that I am not to apologize every time he corrects me on something. I was always saying “I'm sorry”, but the rule is that is only for when I have done wrong and caused hurt. Most often, “Yes Sir” is enough.

I’ve found myself apologizing less out of habit in all areas of my life now. He’s is truly making me a better person, not just a better submissive.