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My Journey Through Life: Vanilla and Non-Vanilla

where I express my thoughts, stories, opinions and more on my journey as being a sub and little will be presented. Most things will be on what I’m experiencing/experienced and if not it will be mention within the post. Thank you for reading~ ❤
5 years ago. October 14, 2019 at 3:06 PM

I’m sorry I usually greet you guys but honestly 


What I don’t understand is when I’m talking to someone we seem to be having a good conversation then they go and say “describe yourself” or “what do you look like” then It sends red flags in my head and when I start I don’t feel comfortable telling my physical appearance then there's the “ have a good day” Oh I will because I’m not going to expose what I look like just because we had a solid good conversation obviously my mind told me not to because ending the conversation bluntly shows me what your intentions were. That they weren't to benefit both sides just you!


I’m sorry to those of you who are genuinely nice to me. You don’t deserve to hear how angered I am in this post. Like I just started to feel more positive today and it’s bringing brought down because I feel like most people. (most not all) care about appearances. 


I understand you would like to know I’m real or something but trust me if I wasn’t real I wouldn’t spend the time or thought into everything I say or do. 


Tae❤️

SSG{ENM-TLP} - babygirl, there are a lot of those everywhere, but don't lose heart. I have personally encountered those who are not and never ask. They truly value the person and fall in love with the person. The body isn't seen the same as some. These are the things you WANT to experience, so you can build a list of things you DO NOT want. Update your profile. The one who falls in love for you for you will love your body just as you are, and you will be more than happy to expose it to him when the appropriate time comes. Trust me. They do exist. There are few, but they DO exist. See the positive side of this. You learned something new today. HUGS!
5 years ago
princesstae​(sub female) - Thank youu!! You always give me the best advice😊 HUGS!!
5 years ago
SSG{ENM-TLP} - Thank you sweet girl.
5 years ago
Little momma​(sub female) - If I'm not comfortable enough with the person I'm speaking with, I tell them I'd like to get to know them better or just outright ignore the request for a self-description. I'm not built for everyone; I'm built for the one meant for me. That's how I've always looked at it.
5 years ago
Bunnie - If you’re not comfortable to share what someone asks you to share, it simply means enough trust hasn’t been built yet. You can either explain that or decide that that isn’t the right person for you. It’s perfectly ok to decide either. It’s all about trust :)
5 years ago
Cheerleaderr - SAME!!!!
5 years ago

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