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All my ADHD thoughts about random things sexy and non-sexy, my hyper-fixations and such.
3 years ago. December 12, 2020 at 12:18 PM

So, I noticed in a lot of profiles it seems people are into anal play...I dunno about me but that kinda bothers me a bit because I always felt like the anus is for...well...you know what I mean. I have a pretty sensitive stomach so I think anything anal would probably be outta the question or I'd be really embarrassed to do anything regarding that. Do people get used to doing that over time? I know using lube is super important obviously...and of course trust in the partner. I dunno, it seems like foreign territory to me.

LaVieEnRose​(sub female){Learning } - I used to think the same, I thought it would be an absolute no go. But over time and a few experiments discovered it’s actually quite nice. If it’s not something you think you can stomach but think maybe with the right person you would explore it because you really need to trust them, then tell them. Tell whoever that you’re not sure and maybe make it negotiable for the future and it may be a long time before you venture down that road or it may be never you never know, just keep an open mind.
3 years ago
holdmethrillme​(sub female) - Thank you, I figured as much but I'm glad you confirmed the trust aspect of it.
3 years ago
LaVieEnRose​(sub female){Learning } - Trust is the foundation of everything, the more you trust the more you open yourself up to new experiences
3 years ago
Bunnie - You don’t have to like everything. We each have our own tastes and preferences and that’s perfectly fine.
If it is a curiosity for you, the more relaxed, lubricated and aroused you are, the more likely your exploration will bring a potentially positive experience.
If mess is a concern that comes to mind when you’re thinking about it all, an enema (research this please) is generally how things are kept clean... and healthy :)
3 years ago
Jack in the box - Comment deleted by poster.
3 years ago
Jack in the box -
Two words, should you ever -

Go

Slow


3 years ago
Bunnie - Second that
3 years ago
Jack in the box - ☺
3 years ago
SirsBabyDoll​(sub female){Pizza+☕} - Third it!
3 years ago
Cherry2000​(sub female) - I had to think of it as just another way to explore sensation. Different parts of the body have different sensations. Start with light touching and small plugs and lots of lube. RELAX and have fun with it. It's okay if it's not for you.
3 years ago
TheAnt​(dom male) - And Honestly, as LavVieEnRose stated, it is not an essential to every dynamic. Just like so many other limits that are out there. If you wish to explore it, Bunnie is right, cleanliness makes you feel more confident nothing will be an oopsie. Cherry2000 is right on the money, explore it gently and finally to wrap it up as Jack in the Box points out, GO SLOW! I think that over time for most it becomes something exhilarating but not for all. These four beat me to what i was going to say LOL, so I just gave credit where credit was due!
-DA
3 years ago

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