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3 years ago. July 10, 2020 at 1:00 AM

i read interesting blogs, i read emotional blogs, i listen to music in blogs that i may never have heard before, i respond to some blogs and love some. Sometimes i even see into your soul and i dont even know you.

Master would say "T what is your fucking point."

my point is choices in life rule your happiness.

YOU!

Only you decide.

Yes there are things in life you have no control over and they can be devastating. i understand.

But!

happiness is the state of being happy.

"she struggled to find happiness in her life"


*Advice Below*

BEWARE!

This comment is coming from an INFJ-A

Advocates have an inborn sense of idealism and morality, but what sets them apart is that they are not idle dreamers. These individuals are capable of taking concrete steps to realize their goals and make a lasting positive impact.

i realize that there are very few people that think and process life like i do.

But!

i always have a choice! You always have a choice!

So i am offering advice which can be futile but i decided to share anyway.

Happiness is a choice. When events challenge your happiness the direction you choose decides whether you will find continued happiness.

Just because you are submissive does not mean you give up your choices.

Just because you are dominant doesnt mean you control all of your submissives choices.

Both want to be happy, both need to be happy.

Or you are single, trying to find that partner that makes you happy?

Umm, not really!

You decide if you are happy, no one else. You!

Happiness is a choice! Your happiness is your responsibility. Don't expect anyone to provide you with happiness.

i am a happy person, all day everyday. Even on hard emotional days i make a choice to be happy.

Way, you might say. You are miserable because someone hurt you. How can you be happy?

Because i choose to look beyond that hurt and move on to a happier place.

No one can hurt you unless you let them!

Happiness is a choice!

 

 

i wish all that read this blog:

Peace

Love

💖

Happiness 

😊

 

HisHunnyBun​(sub female){Taken} - Ah a fellow INFJ!
I'm a INFJ-T
3 years ago
K y i v - As a proud owner of an infj I will attest to the challenge. I would not have any other. Love the post T.
3 years ago
Jack in the box -
Beautiful blog Ms T, thank you ⚘
Sat-chit-ananda
3 years ago
AngelBunny - I agree we are responsible for our own emotional well being.
3 years ago
alawey​(sub female){(OWNED BY } - Yeeeaaa Tttttttttt!!!!! I so agree. We make and choose our own happiness and in my my case silliness and craziness...lol.

Come join the crazy hamster this world is Amazing
3 years ago
Morley​(sub female){Max Sterne} - T, I always love your blogs, and this one isn't any different. I feel I need to say as an ENFJ... I feel so much for a group or individuals, and I don't truly believe WE make our happy! Yes, I believe we can, in some way, make our paths/life happy... But we have no control over others that can influence, make, or take that away! And there are those that CAN take it away... As much as we WANT to hold onto or make our situation "happy" it's to me, a very fine line.. because as much As I MAY WANT to be happy, another CAN take that from me, without me allowing or giving up on my happiness!

Just my two cents! ❤️🤗❤️
3 years ago
T slave​(sub female){Owned} - That is what makes us all so beautiful. Different opinions are always welcome. Thank you.
3 years ago
Bunnie - Peace, Love and Happiness to you too, beautiful lady 😘🤗
3 years ago

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