Kindness

kind·ness
noun
the quality of being friendly, generous, and considerate.

Tender Hearted Dominant

3 years ago. September 25, 2021 at 12:38 PM

Is there such a thing?

Tender Hearted definition: easily moved to love, pity, or sorrow : compassionate, impressionable

I was having a conversation with a very dear submissive friend of mine and she shared a video of her Dom playing with their dog.

I told her that he was very tender hearted with their pet and that showed me his true nature. We laughed because she said, shh, don't tell anyone.

My Dom is also very tender hearted even though he is a sadist. His love and compassion is not limited to just me. He is kind and compassionate to everyone he interacts with but in a dominant way.

I also realized that I am strongly drawn to this personality type and have found many Dominants here on the cage that are tender hearted.

The definition of dominant is a person who is in a position of power or who is exhibiting powerful or controlling tendencie.

So I guess the point of this blog is to ask this question of the dominants here: as a dominant do you believe you can be tender hearted and still be dominant?

SammyJ(sub female){collared} - Comment deleted by poster.

3 years ago

Cherry2000(sub female) - I love seeing the many different sides of my Dom. That tender hearted side is reserved for those close to him.

3 years ago

Sensual City Girl{ForeverHIS} - Mine surely is and one of the qualities that attracts me to him and I love.

3 years ago

MsDove(sub female){Eternal Pi} - Tenderness can be a dominate trait, why not? So can love, joy and laughter. It's a real gift when a Dominate can be firm but tender, strong but but not forceful. That doesn't mean at all they are a soft touch, the force of their hand can run the gamut. It's the sound of their voice and the energy they exude, not the force of their hand, that makes them Dominant. I find that with the experienced Dom's.

3 years ago

alawey(sub female){(OWNED BY } - Well T . I think is possible . But I also think that it would be shown thru there actions .and that it maybe that only some are given the opportunity to witness it. I think that it's a trust issue if they trust you or those around then they will allow it to be shown.

And I also agree with above how that doesnt make them a pushover or weak Dom.

3 years ago

alawey(sub female){(OWNED BY } - I always would like to add that you posted this question to the Doms yet mainly subs are responding to the question. So to me that shows how Doms see themselves and other Doms. ( even though many have said they are human beings first .) I think those that are this if they showed it to everyone than the problem wouldn't be them it would be how other dom veiw them. Does that make sense?

3 years ago

T slave(sub female){Owned} - For me compassion by a dominant does not show weakness at all but on the contrary it shows intelligence. Knowing the difference is key and your right alawey about the responses. If you notice that in the definition of a dominant it does not mention anything about lacking compassion.

I was hoping that more Doms/Dommes would lend their thoughts.

3 years ago

alawey(sub female){(OWNED BY } - Yes to me compassion would be a hugh thing . And they would have to be smart enough to know how when where . Because I know that I would have to have someone that was in touch with their emotions because how else can or would they be able to deal with a crazy emotional sub like a good bit that I know

3 years ago

AngelBunny - I'm glad you wrote this blog. I and my Master have had conversations about males showing vulnerable feelings. He says that from a young age men are taught that is weakness and his experience has been when he has been emotional/compassionate with others, they have tried to take advantage of it or belittled him for it. So he only reserves it for those that are closest to him.

3 years ago

T slave(sub female){Owned} - And that can work both ways. Sadly there are many mean hearted people. Being guarded is wise.

3 years ago

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