New dom struggles

Bedtime

4 years ago. December 18, 2019 at 8:13 PM

Hello everyone

I'm looking for some help. My partner is struggling to sleep at night. I know she likes a bedtime routine. I'm trying to come up with something that works for her. Any suggestions would be great.

I want to make it simple and straight forward. Something that she would love. Something that shows her every night that I'm here. I'm thinking about her. And how much she means to me.

Couple things come to mind. As we sometimes go to bed at different times.

Im thinking a prerecorded video message I send to her for bedtime. Something I record through the day. Not sure yet.

What are some of you're favorite bedtime routines? Anything you can share would be nice.

Lilkitten(sub female){Deepwater} - Routines are very important, especially for littles. If she struggles to fall asleep, a pre-recorded message is a great idea! Using a soft and a little monotone voice, reassuring her that she is a good girl, telling her how you feel about her. Even reading aloud a bedtime story! In my experience, it's more in the tone of your voice. Quiet time for at least 20 minutes before actually going to bed. Meditation or reading..just being quiet. Sounds like you're on the right track.

4 years ago

TheChimera(sub female) - My Dominant has me on a routine where I recite a mantra every night before bed, and every morning when I wake. I'm on a bedtime of 1am. (I'm a nightowl, 1am for me is actually a 'lil early. Used to curl up around 2:30am to 3am.)

4 years ago

Bleiz(sub female) - You've got some great ideas here. It was just recently that I learned how important it is to recite a mantra. Letting her hear your voice is a good one too. I'm sure as you get to know your sub even more, you'll find a way to meet her needs. I've been enjoying your blogs, keep sharing! 🙂

4 years ago

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New dom struggles

Bedtime