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So this blog is going to be about my experience as submissive as well as the emotions that come with it. I will begin writing more about my Domme tendencies as I discover that side of myself more. Not only will it be about my head spaces but what I think of the lifestyle and how I live it. Not only that, but I’d like to create a blog where someone can read each post maybe feel less confused...or just little tidbits to enjoy.
3 years ago. November 4, 2020 at 9:04 PM

I know I’m not as pretty as other girls....Usually I’m happy with who I am. I can love myself with no problem. Lately....it’s been scary. I can feel my resolve cracking. I look around and it seems all the subs....no women.... who are good girls and desirable are skinny, not colored, short.....beautiful. Next to them I feel average, maybe pretty. Who would choose daisies over roses. Yeah, I’ve been cheated on(just like the picture says) they all were girls that were shorter, long hair, skinny.....white. The opposite of me. So I’ve been doubting myself. I don’t have a daddy that can put me back together if I fall apart so this....this is scary. Scary to the point where even in little space I don’t feel like a genuine little

BigBubbles - Do not doubt yourself. You look fantastic. You are still very young. Give it some time for the right one to find you. Size has nothing to do with it. Theres lots of Doms out there that prefer bigger women, trust me. Just be patient. Hugs
3 years ago
CURIOUSBRIT{OWNED} - You are beautiful and unique and there is nobody else like you. You just need to have faith that the right dom will come along. I too am waiting for mine.
As BigBubbles says size doesn't matter and I am hoping this is true too. If ever want to chat, drop me a message. Sending you love and hugs xxx
3 years ago
Cherry2000​(sub female) - You are gorgeous! Never doubt that.
But first and foremost never doubt that you are fabulous, no matter what size your clothes say that you are.
3 years ago
girlyGoddess​(switch female) - Thank you guys so much for all the love and support I appreciate it so much
3 years ago
BigBubbles - I promise there are men that will want to eat your ass like a cupcake,BECAUSE you are the size you are. No despite it. Chin up.
3 years ago
girlyGoddess​(switch female) - Thanks girl
3 years ago
oMichaelne​(dom male) - Comment deleted by poster.
3 years ago
Sensual City Girl{ForeverHIS} - Never compare yourself to anyone...I agree with everyone above. You will find the person that will accept all of YOU. Love yourself first and always. 🤗
3 years ago
TheWhorelock​(dom male) - “I know I’m not as pretty as other girls...”

I call bullshit. You’re not the same kind of pretty, sure, but you’re a super sexy young black woman with curves for days. There’s tons of Daddy’s who would be absolutely thrilled for you to be theirs.
3 years ago
girlyGoddess​(switch female) - Thank you sir, the compliment is greatly appreciated
3 years ago
Cressida Clytie​(masochist female){Taken} - Don't compare yourself to others. You have to embrace yourself and be confident. Sending you love and hugs 🤗 ❤
3 years ago
DaddE​(dom male) - We feel you. Hold strong. The right person is out there for you, and He's just the type you're looking for. :)
3 years ago
TheWhorelock​(dom male) - I wanna add something to all these lovely posts of encouragement. Beyond the “right one” is out there, like... the many other dudes who think you’re pussy should get worshipped and tortured or whatever you like are out there too. You’re hot, and worthy of being lusted after by people who aren’t your one twue wuv too!

I dunno maybe that part doesn’t matter to you but I just think there’s a weird subtext well meaning people fall into of accidentally implying that you being a woman of color makes you less in any way. It’s built into our unconscious frames and I wanna dispel that myth right out the door because if I’d dated you or just been your one night stand when I was your age I would’ve been one super lucky motherfucker. Period.

Sorry I’m all fired up. I’ll get off my podium now.
3 years ago
girlyGoddess​(switch female) - Thank you so much
3 years ago
Couldibealice​(sub female) - Oh hunny, Reading this made me tear up a little. I know that feeling. You are a beautiful young lady, and don't allow these insecurities let you believe OTHERWISE, OKAY. Being a little is all to do with how we feel on the inside, and has nothing to do with the body god gave us. 💛 There's this song by Mitski called "best American girl"... And it's a story all POC can relate to. It worth a listen
3 years ago
girlyGoddess​(switch female) - Thank you so much
3 years ago
Couldibealice​(sub female) - The music video and the comments especially on YT really helped me feel like we're not alone
3 years ago

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