Kinking It Real

I thought that I would be able to keep this blog free of the main problem I’m starting to see: fake Doms and red flags. I have recently encountered what I think might be a fake Dom. See I had received a message that stated, and I quote, “I can’t wait to win you.” I don’t know about others but for me, upon receiving a message I prefer one where I’m greeted nicely, even though I’m a submissive, I want to be acknowledged as a person first. Second the lack of greeting or any information about yourself or even a question regarding something on my profile let’s me know you aren’t wanting to get to know me, if so I’m not sure by statements like the one above. Third, upon visiting his profile there was a significant lack of information on him as a person, as a Dom, and what his kinks and limits generally were. I did notice however that he wants more than one sub. I’m greedy and don’t like sharing so when messaging back I made it clear where I stand. Below I will post a pic of my message I sent. He had replied to that message by calling me disrespectful and stating he wouldn’t want me....yet had said he wanted to own me. I urge all submissives to be wary of Doms like him. They most likely only want one thing. In the comment section I’d like for all, both Doms and subs, to please tell me if my message was truly disrespectful.