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Kinking It Real

So this blog is going to be about my experience as submissive as well as the emotions that come with it. I will begin writing more about my Domme tendencies as I discover that side of myself more. Not only will it be about my head spaces but what I think of the lifestyle and how I live it. Not only that, but I’d like to create a blog where someone can read each post maybe feel less confused...or just little tidbits to enjoy.
3 years ago. December 14, 2020 at 10:01 PM

So, I’ve been debating on bringing this up but my alter Lilith says I’m depriving her of her Domme instincts so I’m going to introduce her. I’ve been aware of this alter since I was about 14 and she has always been the Domme of the group out of the three of us. She’s into many of the things that me and Babygirl are into. Up until this point you all have been interacting with my main alter, Tay, and Babygirl, my little and brat side. She can and will at times come out on her own without me needing to call her. She is very vocal. If you do not think that she exists, well that’s fine. Neither me nor the rest of my alters need validation to exist. No there is no interlocking relationship between my alters and I other than our friendship bonds. If you have any, all questions are welcome.

 

Hello, I’m very pleased to meet all of you finally. I’m excited to meet and ensnare a submissive of my own. Hopefully they’re a good little puppy that’ll listen to Mommy. And yes I do like to have my title capitalized, not right away but after I’ve began training it’ll be a must.

 

UMM SORRY SHES VERY DEPRIVED IGNORE HER. But no really she takes this lifestyle very seriously.

Cozubia​(dom male){She’s Mine} - Welcome to the party! It’s nice to meet you!
3 years ago
girlyGoddess​(switch female) - Thank you!
3 years ago
SirsBabyDoll​(sub female){Pizza+☕} - Join the crowd. The cooler is stocked and the pool is clean....have fun!
3 years ago
B L O N D I E​(sub female) - I am DID as well. Feel free to contact me if you want to chat about how to manage and how I deal with it in a D/s relationship.
3 years ago
girlyGoddess​(switch female) - Sadly I can’t, I’m not a premium user but advice is always welcome
3 years ago
B L O N D I E​(sub female) - I'm on a free account as well, so we could just communicate here. I just read your profile. How are you coping so far? It sounds as though you are making good progress toward understanding your alters and allowing space for each to express themselves, so you're on the right track.
3 years ago
girlyGoddess​(switch female) - Thank you. I was given the advice to allow them to express themselves. Or I’d have chaos. They’d be fighting to be the main alter and that’s just bleh
3 years ago
B L O N D I E​(sub female) - What has worked for me is to have clearly defined times, activities, and departments where each can fulfill their abilities, skills, and strengths without interference from the others. For example, whichever is best at driving does the driving when you go somewhere. Whichever one is best at the job is the one who is out at work while the others agree to take a backseat. Same with sex. When one is out playing and doing their particular thing, the others agree to keep quiet and not interfere in exchange for having their own time and their own activities without interference from the rest. Same with communication. It's super important that each alter has blanket permission to communicate whatever information they have to communicate and that each alter is making a genuine effort to learn, get to know, and respect the others. Each one has to accept the personality characteristics of the others even if they don't like it. It's the same as communicating with another, "real" person. It's the only way you're going to find out what each one needs and how to satisfy those needs in the most effective possible way. Feel free to let me know if you need help with anything. My door is always open.
3 years ago

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