Indigo Blue

Hello Indigo Fam,

   I am coming to my community for advice. A dear friend of mine lost her husband suddenly a couple of years ago. His brother approached her with the suggestion of being there for her...like a boyfriend. The brother is married...it turns into a poly relationship. My friend doesn't know anything about the lifestyle...all she knows is he is giving her time and attention. I have figured it out a while ago, I thought they would fully explain things to her, but they didn't. She as well as the husband/wife know I am in the lifestyle. My sub sister came to town this weekend so we could celebrate her 21st birthday. My Dom was there and her boyfriend/ Dom in training. I invited my friend to celebrate with us. Her kids were gone with grandma for the weekend and her "man" was out of town on business. The wife is in town, but she was working. My friend had a good time. We laughed, played music, and drank. She was in contact with the wife the whole time by text and even a phone call. After 3 hours she started home and was met with insults and accusations of her cheating and lies. That she was at a stingers party. This off and on arguing has lasted 2 days. This evening I tried to open her eyes to what is going on explaining the dynamic in which she has been trusted into. Why he and the wife behave the way they do. BTW the wife is a lg/switch. Is there any advice you can give me to help her cope and understand what she has gotten into. I know this was long, I apologize. 

Peace 

Indigo 

Hello Indigo fam,

I wanted to share my Easter cookie house with you all. My Daddy and I worked on it together. It may not be a masterpiece, but it came from the heart. Daddy stared at me for quite awhile when I started putting the icing on. I stopped and asked " am I doing something wrong" he replied "No baby, I just love how focused you are" this is a testimony of how deep the DD/lg  relationship can be....not sex, but the bonding. I love how my Daddy takes care of me. I hope all my lg subs are being treated the same. 

Hello Indigo Fam, 

  So sometimes when I do my blogs I am rushing because it is a task set by my Sir. I want to be compliant, but sometimes I am short on time. I thank you all for understanding and not nit pick me over misspelled words. I usually read what I wrote again when I read your responses. Then go back in and do the editing. I love my community, you all are awesome. My Dom and I live the lifestyle 24/7. It's hard sometimes to balance the vanilla world around us and the lifestyle, But we make it work. My solace is knowing I can check in here and a couple of other places to feel comfortable and relaxed. I can't wait till this covid stuff is over. We would like to attend lifestyle events(munched, Dungeons, couples only vacations). So when you have the swinger BBQ or a munch, please remember us for an invite lol. Michigan, Ohio, Illinois, and Indiana. Now my side job as a travel agent is having a convention in Las Vegas July 30th - August 2nd. I would love to know of any hot spots there so we can swing through. Food for thought.

Peace 

Indigo 

One of the most intimate things you can do is take a bath or shower with your Dominant. My Dom appeals to my little side, washing me lovingly as any Dad would do for his children. Not sexual, I sing while he washes, he loves to hear me sing. Now there are times when we are showering right before a session. That turns sexual. Either way I enjoy his careful touch. Having dinner is another intimate experience.  My Dom likes me to cook naked. He likes to tease me while I cooking, making me focus on what I am doing while caressing my breast and pussy. I am not allowed to touch him, just focus on the task at hand. When he fingers me.....that really tests my focus. Sometimes I am a naughty girl and steal a orgasim from him. Yes I said steal from him. He owns my orgasims. I must ask permission to cum. When I do steal one, his punishment is swift. I enjoy the intimacy I have with Beast, my Latinobruiser. 

Peace

Indigo 

Hello Indigo Fam,

    I have been reading alot of profiles (yes I am a stalker) lately, especially those who like my blogs. I like knowing more about my fan base. It also helps me give you all  information and stories you want to hear. One thing I noticed is some of my sub sisters frown on age play, but they claim to be a bit bratty. So here are my thoughts. If you act like a brat....that is a form of age play. 😏 you don't have to be in diapers to let your little side fly free. So in my D/s relationship there are several dynamics. Because we are 24/7 in the lifestyle, I call him by his given name around family, sometimes I say Sir. They think I am just being polite lol. Around friends I call him Sir or Beast/Beasty. When I turn bratty about a situation he is Daddy. I have said this before DD/lg for us is non sexual. When my day is going bad and I go on a rant about work or the kids stressing me out. He will say " come here little girl" I sit on his lap and he gives me a big hug. If I try to defy him I get two warnings first he says "get over here" if I don't come then he calls me by the sub name he gave me "Thumper " that mean do as I am told or I get a red bottom. Again it's all non sexual. Once I start acting like an adult again our DD/lg ends and we are back to the normal D/s dynamic. It's a balance but it works for us. Not saying it will work for everyone, but don't knock it till you try it. If I had to put an age on my little I would say she is around 8-10. Just my thoughts on age play. I didn't mean to make it this long lol. You all know me by now, sometimes I get to typing and my fingers won't shut up lol.

Love you all

Indigo

Lying close to you feeling your heart beating.

I'm wondering what you're dreaming, wondering if it's me your seeing.

Then I kiss your eyes and thank God we're together 

I just want to stay with you in this moment forever .....ever and ever

I don't want to close my eyes

I don't want to fall asleep cause I'd miss you baby and I don't want to miss a thing 

Aerosmith 

Sometimes the words of another seem to work out fine

Peace

Indigo

Hello Indigo Fam, 

  I titled this sharing is caring because my kids are funny and I hear them say that all the time. It got me thinking. I have read a few profiles over the past year and it seems there are many subs that face the same issue....THE WOLF. Many of my sub sisters like myself have found that one Dom/Daddy/Master/Sir that completes us. We change our profile to even reflect our omission of submission to that one. I know I am always including how much I love and respect my Dom Latinobrusier in my blogs. A lot of our Doms are secure and have no issue with us subs having a friendly conversation with another Dom. The Wolf is that Dom that has no respect or ethics. He will try to steal the prey away. Most times when he can't succeed he will bow out gracefully, but there is always that one. You all know who I am referring to. The one that won't take no for an answer. They keep messaging you trying to get in your head. Saying things like " Your Dom is a fool to let you talk to other Doms" or " You must want me because you are talking to me" let me say this now, just because our Dominants share us that doesn't mean we are fair game. They are proud of their conquest and don't mind sharing us, but it's just that ...sharing. not an invitation to be challenged for the prey. I had one Dom that told me I was stupid for being with my Dom( he is Latino and I am black) and one day he was going to kill me. He asked " you couldn't find anyone in your own race". That pissed me off. I will show respect to a Dom that is not mine, but that creep gets no respect from me. Just looking at my Dom's picture he judged and condemned him. My Dom is very secure in what he has. He is my life partner. So I know this ran long, but I will conclude with a word to the Wolf. Remember you may have teeth and claws, but our Doms have rifles and will not hesitate to defend what is theirs if they have to.

Peace 

Indigo

Hello Indigo Fam,

  Usually I am boasting about my Dom or telling some erotic tale. I want to talk to my sub sisters today about trust. I am a giving person sometimes to a fault lol. When I see a newbie here or on my other sites I like to reach out to say Hi. I think it's important to bond as sisters in this lifestyle. 90% of us probably have vanilla friends and family that would not understand if you have a question about what a good candle wax brand to buy or what kind of anal lube is best. I do belong to a sub group on another site where this is discussed quite often. I know my Dom and I have a personal add up, but when I reach out it's not cause I want anything other than just giving support to those who in most cases post they have no clue where the belong in this lifestyle. They just know they are submissive and need to find where they fit in. Trust is very important in the lifestyle, be it to your Dom/Daddy/Master/Sir or to another submissive that may have experience to help you on your journey. We as submissives should trust each other, uplift each other, empower to be the best sub/little/brat/baby girl/slave that we can be.

Peace

Indigo 

Hello Indigo Fam,

  First I want to say happy Valentines to all the subs/slaves/baby girls/sissys. Much love to all the Doms/Sirs/Masters/Daddys/Dommes out there. I would like to talk to you about intimacy.

Anyone can swing a paddle, cane, or flogger. It's not just the rope, hand cuffs, or restraints. It's the little things that make it intimate. Simple holding of hands is arousing in itself. How much care is taken when the rope is being applied. Looking in each other eyes(if that is allowed) feeling at that moment nothing else matters.  The natural smell of one's skin.....mercy 😍. I love the way my Dom/Daddy smells. When he looks at me and stalks me like prey.....there I go again getting wet just thinking about him. That is what intimacy will do to you. I would like to close with a quote from one of my favorite artists 

"I just can't stop writing songs about you, I love you so much. I just can't wait to get my arms around you and feel your touch. If I don't see you real soon I might go insane. I know it's only been three hours but I love it when you call my name"

Prince

Love you all fam especially you my sweet Beast. I can't wait for this weekend!

Indigo/ Thumper 

He walks over to the dresser and opens the bottom drawer. I can't make out what he grabbed because he put his hand behind his back before bending up. "Come here Thumper " he said in a booming voice. I quickly do as I am told. "Turn around" he said. I could feel him lean in, kissing the back of my neck gently. He whispered in my ear "Do you trust me". With my life I replied. I could feel the silky rope glide across my back brings the two halfs around under my arm then cross over my breast....purple, my favorite color. He repeated this action several times down my body until  he wrapped the final loops around my thighs. He turned me around and backed me up to the bed. I fell back as he wrapped the remaining rope around both of his hands. With my legs propped over his forearms he had me right where he wanted me. He thrust is dick inside of my pussy and stroke like he was riding a prized horse. The tighter he pulled on the rope the more wet  I became. A smile came across his face, dimples deep as the sea and said " I just love how wet you get". He released the right rope and grabbed the criss-cross in the center of my breast. Deeper he plunged.....