First I would like to thank everyone that is following and commenting on my blogs. I have been a writer on hiatus for years. This forum has inspired me to get back into doing what I love.
So today's topic is an interesting one. I recently did a blog about trusting your partner/Dominant and understanding that you let what happened in the past keep you from enjoying that same things you feared. Your new person may have a better understanding of your needs and feeling. They can execute the activity in a way that will bring you pleasure not pain....no matter what the activity is.
Well my friends i am here to tell you I am being sort of a hypocrite. My Dom wants to introduce using a cane. I have never had anyone use a cane with me before, but I can't seem to get past the fact that in other countries they use canes as extreme punishment. I don't see why he wants to use one so bad. I need your help. Please chime in Dom or Subs and share your experience so i may understand better. Yes this topic is approved by my Dom.
Peace
Indigo