Seen this saying on social media, "One thing people need to understand about extremely kind, nice, and loving people, is that their other side is just as extreme. It's the hell they survive that makes them gentle. Don't mistake their self-control for weakness. The beast in them is sleeping, not dead."
I can relate to that. It is also the hell they survive to make them strong. My issue is that I dont see where I am being taken advantage of til after the damage has been done and I am picking up the shattered pieces alone.
Recently I have been wondering if I am too broken to even consider of being in a D/s relationship with anyone. It is very difficult for me to trust and when I do I fully trust. This is why I am taking my time of getting to know Doms before investing my time, emotions, loyality, and my submission into the dynamic.
When it comes to me vetting a potential Dom I am focused only on that Dom. If the protenital Dom doesnt align with what I am looking for, then I will end the vetting process and move on til I find the one Dom who aligns with what I am looking for.
