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4 years ago. February 22, 2020 at 10:49 PM

I'm not always good with words and I try not to bore people with the endless thoughts that go on in my brain but I need to vent just for a moment. As most know,  I am not out here seeking any form of a relationship aside from friendship but recently I started chatting with someone in my area that is apart of this world. I was like, finally someone close to me that is not vanilla or a straight up ignorant person that I can have coffee(well tea) with and see what happens. Or so I thought.....

It was all going well, he seemed kind and interested in actually getting to know me. Was planning on meeting up next weekend for coffee but of course, it went completely south and pretty quick.

I refused to send him naked pictures of myself and then called him out on it. I told him, you don't even know me or I you. I can't stand people like that. Apparently, I touched a nerve because it turned into I'm boring him and I'm obviously not a good submissive then threw out some choice words....

Okay, asshat. Lets just lash out and throw a tantrum because you are a wanna be dom and didn't get your way.

This is one reason amongst the many reasons why I am not seeking to date anyone or find a dominant right now. The dating pool in your 30s and up is a shit show. The good ones are rare.

Thank you for tuning in. . . .rant over.

 

SoftLily​(sub female) - That is very annoying and unfortunately very relatable. I’m more intrigued by people’s personalities and minds, not naked pictures.
4 years ago
gwenstar​(sub female) - Me too Inconsequential, I'm all about soul to begin with, with everybody I come in contact with.
4 years ago
rosethorn​(sub female) - Tantrum is the most accurate way to put it... but my dick wanted it.... how dare you deny my dick what it wanted.... your supposed to do what my dick wants... your submissive🙄 submission is given by the submissives consent thats why we refer to it as earn submission you have to build trust honesty and connection if there is any hope of a submissive giving consent because its really not easy.
Yeah.. dating pool age 25+ is just as bad either man child temper tantrum idiots or arrogant arsehole neither of which have any capacity of caring for the other person
4 years ago
gwenstar​(sub female) - Right rosethorn, then these people make it even harder to get back out there. Too many people not recovering from past traumas to be able to even begin to build any type of connection. Thank you for your kind words
4 years ago
rosethorn​(sub female) - Your very kind to say that. Its a shame how common this experience seems to be
4 years ago
Sensual City Girl{ForeverHIS} - Sorry you had to experience this...makes it even harder just to even have coffee/tea with someone. Total jerk!
4 years ago
gwenstar​(sub female) - You don't even know daddys sensual girl. But he won't stop me anymore than I stop myself. If that makes any sense💛💛 thank you
4 years ago
subbieoo​(sub male){Yes, } - Asshat. Perfect retort. Keep the faith good people abound. Just hard to spot. They are in your life every day. In small ways . slow down , look around at the folk you might not always pay attention to. Life is good.
4 years ago
gwenstar​(sub female) - I thought so too subbieoo. I was going to go with a worse name but I thought that fit the bill. Thank you for your feedback💛
4 years ago
Lion​(dom male){Hazel Eyes} - Well from a masters perspective I agree with asshat, but I can think of a lot more terms to describe them. Like a giant red flag if their not willing to take the time to get to know you then how can you ever exspect them to take care of you. If someone truly cares they will take the time to know everything about you. Remember asking questions and I mean a lot of questions helps weed out the douce bags, no wants one of them hanging around. Big hug good luck.
4 years ago
gwenstar​(sub female) - Thank you for your feedback Lion. I most definitely ask probably way to many questions but that's how it is to weed them out and to start with a good foundation.
4 years ago

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