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(If you understand this, you've earned my eternal, undying friendship. You're never getting rid of me now - sorry)

Flabbergasted. Astonished. Dumbfounded. Stupefied. 

 

All fitting words for how I feel right about now...

 

Early this morning, I received a message from a Dom asking if I "ever considered an online dynamic". 

 

First of all, I have very clearly stated that I am not looking for a relationship at the moment, and that I am most certainly not looking for an online one. 

 

Secondly, this was the third time that this person had sent me this same message. With each message, I took the time to respond out of courtesy and kindly let him know that I was not interested in a relationship (I should also note that he never acknowledged them or responded back). 

 

By the time the third message came around, saying word for word the same thing, I was fed up. This is the exact message that I sent in response:

 

 

"With all due respect, this is the third time that you have sent this message to me, and each time I have responded stating that I am not looking for a relationship. I truly do not mean to be disrespectful or unkind, but I would appreciate it if you would please stop sending me this message. Have a nice day =)"

 

 

Next thing I know, this person has blocked me. 

 

...huh?!

 

My purpose for posting this is to ask y'all if I was out of line in any way. I genuinely want to understand if I spoke out of turn, and how to handle this properly should this situation arise again. How else could I phrase this? What more could I say?

 

In all reality, it was probably a blessing in disguise; I really tired of seeing that same message pop up over and over again =P

 

Any advice is appreciated =)

 

 

 

 

 

-"Ripley"

proudbbw - My advice.. I'd it happens again.. if u tell someone something and they dont get the picture and ask the exact same thing a second time... u do the blocking and dont even waste ur time replying
4 years ago
HeyLittleOne - I always try to give people the benefit of the doubt and assumed that he was just sending out mass messages, but apparently he does read responses, haha! Thank you very much for your advice, and I will certainly be following it the future =)
4 years ago
proudbbw - U r very welcome.. it's all about protecting urself.. like Wakko said.. those r the types tht r usually out for just one thing..
4 years ago
SchrodingersDinosaur​(switch female)​{N/a} - Going to bet it's one of the serial messagers. I still haven't figured out the deal with them but apparently there's a small group of fellows that are so damn impressed with their own opening line that they just keep reusing the same one on anyone who they perceive has the personal parts they prefer, uncaring if they've previously hit the same poor recipient up. Unknown if there are ladies that do the same silliness but most likely. And yep, standard process is to block you if you call em on on it, even nicely. I'm wagering it's either some kinda closeted humiliation fetish they must have, or perhaps they really are just bots as I posited to one...so, no, not really anything else you could have done and you responded more than fairly. Like you, I always hope there's an opportunity for growth or learnings but some people you just can't help.
4 years ago
HeyLittleOne - Boy is it frustrating!! It seemed like a real profile, so I didn't want to be rude to an actual person, but jeeze! Its really unfortunate that some people feel the need to do stuff like that, especially in a community where respect and boundaries are paramount. Thank you very much for taking the time to help me =)
4 years ago
SirsBabyDoll​(sub female)​{Pizza+☕}Verified Account - You don't own ANYBODY respect if they have ALREADY been told to GTFO.....
4 years ago
HeyLittleOne - You're right! More than anything, I was just trying to be courteous, but I have little patience for people that can't take a hint (especially when it wasn't even a hint, but a direct "no thank you")
4 years ago
SirsBabyDoll​(sub female)​{Pizza+☕}Verified Account - Next time, screw the "thank you" and just use 'no'....
4 years ago
MrGhost77​(dom male)​{Not lookin} - There are to many little clicks on here if you respond and you get the same question just block them.
4 years ago
HeyLittleOne - I will certainly take your advice should this happen again! Thank you very much =)
4 years ago

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