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5 years ago. Tuesday, March 31, 2020 at 6:03 PM

Flabbergasted. Astonished. Dumbfounded. Stupefied. 

 

All fitting words for how I feel right about now...

 

Early this morning, I received a message from a Dom asking if I "ever considered an online dynamic". 

 

First of all, I have very clearly stated that I am not looking for a relationship at the moment, and that I am most certainly not looking for an online one. 

 

Secondly, this was the third time that this person had sent me this same message. With each message, I took the time to respond out of courtesy and kindly let him know that I was not interested in a relationship (I should also note that he never acknowledged them or responded back). 

 

By the time the third message came around, saying word for word the same thing, I was fed up. This is the exact message that I sent in response:

 

 

"With all due respect, this is the third time that you have sent this message to me, and each time I have responded stating that I am not looking for a relationship. I truly do not mean to be disrespectful or unkind, but I would appreciate it if you would please stop sending me this message. Have a nice day =)"

 

 

Next thing I know, this person has blocked me. 

 

...huh?!

 

My purpose for posting this is to ask y'all if I was out of line in any way. I genuinely want to understand if I spoke out of turn, and how to handle this properly should this situation arise again. How else could I phrase this? What more could I say?

 

In all reality, it was probably a blessing in disguise; I really tired of seeing that same message pop up over and over again =P

 

Any advice is appreciated =)

 

 

 

 

 

-"Ripley"

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