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4 years ago. April 6, 2020 at 10:51 PM

I have a question for (anyone with knowledge pertaining to) littles!

 

I previously stated that I was interested in ageplay, and believed that I would identify with age 5-6. I have thought about this quite a bit, and have come to the realization that I don't feel like I regress at all; I really don't fit the "norm" of ageplay.

 

Could this be because I have never experienced this lifestyle personally and have never felt comfortable enough or persuaded to? I have never met/known a Daddy Dom figure, so maybe it just hasn't been brought out yet?? I'm wondering if I'm not necessarily an ageplayer, but moreso have little-like tendencies, and it's just a part of my personality as a whole. I know, without a doubt, that I gravitate most towards Daddy Doms, but does that have to do with ageplay?

 

I love blankies, stuffies, cuddles/affection, being read to, drawing, really just all of the "typical" little things, but I have always loved those things and they are just a part of who I am on a daily basis. I don't feel like I have a "little me", but just me. Maybe I haven't met her yet, or maybe I'm not really an ageplayer, rather just immature =0

 

Or, of course, maybe it's Maybelline. Who knows at this point...

 

I have no idea if I am explaining this correctly, or if I just sound like a buffoon as usual. I really am quite terrible at putting my scrambled thoughts into coherent sentences.

 

I'm curious if anyone has an opinion on this, and any input is greatly appreciated. I feel like I'm having a midlife crisis, and that's a little worrying at my age. 

 

I hope that y'all are staying safe and a bit more sane than myself! 

 

Jack in the box - Maybelline - its definitely Maybelline. ?
Ill throw my inexperienced 2 cents in -
Maybe you are in the category (?) Of baby girl - DDbg
If its not a category - I just made it one! ?
Thank you for sharing ⚘
4 years ago
HeyLittleOne - Haha I thought so!!

Thank you very much for your input, I really appreciate it. Baby girl certainly seems more fitting than a little!
4 years ago
Dellydoodah​(neither female) - Maybe youre an ADULT baby girl and only the right Daddy can bring her out
4 years ago
HeyLittleOne - That could be a possibility!! I've noticed that a few more of those tendencies come out when I'm around dominant personalities, but no one has ever made me feel as though I was a little/bg.

Thank you very much for your help!!
4 years ago
SchrodingersDinosaur​(switch female)​{N/a} - Truth is that there are all different ways of presenting, Little One. You may find with the right Dominant (DD or otherwise), one that you feel safe and secure with, more defined regression may take place, possibly without you even realizing it. You just sort of slide into that space. But you can also enjoy 'little' things, like coloring or Disney movies or whatever, without ever feeling the need to regress, or your everyday behavior changing much at all. The important thing is to embrace what you enjoy. What makes you happy makes you happy, there is no one right way to express being a little, a babygirl, or a subbie in general. Relax into it and enjoy your journey.
4 years ago
Jack in the box - Very well said! ?
4 years ago
HeyLittleOne - Your response really helped to put my mind at ease, and I truly appreciate it. Labels are so prevalent everywhere that I try to fit into one to describe myself, but I'm starting to realize that sometimes that's just not possible. Thank you very much for taking the time to help me =)
4 years ago
Azzabackam​(switch male)​{PawPawGirl} - It honestly sounds like you just ageplay in your own way. Nothing in the lufestyle is universal. Not every Little regresses, some just are the way they are, and that's perfectly fine.
4 years ago
HeyLittleOne - I think that that is most likely the case! I guess I was just unsure because it mostly feels as though I just never grew out of liking those things, but I think that I may find that side of myself coming out more when the time is right. Thank you so much for your response!!
4 years ago
Jolene​(sub female)​{PapaBear} - I don't like calling myself a little. I prefer to call myself an innocent. I get in naive, loving, affectionate, playful moods that remind me of the freedom of being young and ignorant to the harsh realities of the world, but I don't feel a specific age. I like typically young things, kids menus, stuffies, bubble baths, cute clothing, but I don't feel tied to an age. It just feels like me, so I see it more as a mood and personality trait than an identity.
4 years ago
HeyLittleOne - That sounds a lot like myself!! You explained it much better than I could! I don't feel like a specific age either, but rather that kind of innocence that you talked about. Thank you very much for your response =D
4 years ago
Jack in the box -

Yes
11 months ago
HeyLittleOne -

?
11 months ago

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