Over the years I've enjoyed the dating scene and getting the opportunity to learn people. I've dated older, younger, same age and couples, and when I say dating, I don't mean they ended in sexual exploration... I mean, we went out on the town for a night, ate, watched movie or sporting event, talked, laughed and teased one another, sexually and otherwise. Touch was permitted but kept to a minimum as we pretended to be in a relationship, knowing that at the end of the night, I was going to my place and they, to wherever they chose. We didn't use our real names, and that was intentional to help keep that feeling of an emotional connection from growing. However, there were those who simply couldn't abide by the rule and would tell me their real name... unintentionally, of course... and that would end the night for me. I didn't beat around the bush about it and I made more than a few people pissed off over the years by simply saying, "And with that, I bid thee a good night." turning and walking away. Now, I'm not always that ridged and being that ridged was intentional. I didn't want anything more than what I was advertising for. I was being open, honest and expected to be treated in the same manner and that is where people in today's society have lost their way. Freedom of choice, Freedom of speech, Freedom in itself, doesn't come free. If you want freedom of speech, it not only means you wish to be able to express yourself in a public forum without the fear of legal ramifications but it means that you accept accountability for what comes out of your mouth in a social forum, whether it be during a RL event or online platform. Freedom of choice, is: You have the freedom to make a choice without legal ramifications. Whether others accept your choice or not is up to them because that is their freedom of choice as well. If one can not handle the ramifications of their words or actions, then they are leaning a hard life lesson... Freedom comes with a cost. If you are unwilling to pay the cost, then perhaps the freedom that you chose was an unwise decision that was made and THAT is what most what to call... unintentional. We don't want to be held accountable for the effects of our actions or speech. If we realized this too late or it was brought to light later in life, we call it a mistake and apologize for whatever it was. Most do not, so what they say was unintentional was indeed intentional but they want both: To be let off the hook of accountability and ramifications, without apology. When we permit these things WE are the reason for the problems that we see in todays world wide society. Demand better by taking actions that declare you have more value to yourself than that. In short... stop simping to shit behavior. Call that shit out and reveal it for the shitty conduct that it is, without losing the argument in your own behavior.
Of recent thecage has decided to use AI and censor our blogs/forums/profiles and most likely our chat room and call/vid options also. We can sit and blame the AI, but the AI was created by humans who wrote the parameters of what to screen for. thecage took the time to physically write the changes out which means it's not an AI issue or a legislative issue by some government. It's a cage issue. When you stand up for nothing, you fall for anything and in my opinion, this site has chosen to sacrifice our trust and personal information for unseen fortune... this site doesn't operate for free so where is the revenue coming from? What all does AI do? it's not just simply looking for pictures, it has access to your account, your billing, legal name and address, IP address and more... If you think that information is just a means by which to "scan for predator's" then who is receiving this information... ever hear the saying: one bad apple spoils the bunch? They can say they are looking for one bad apple but they are scanning every apple in the bunch and sending that information on to... who? or what corporation or government system? "That's not our intentions!" but.... it's not unintentional either. So which is the lie? The proof, or the plea? What you as a consumer chooses, is the permission that you give.. not just to the site, but to those who wrote the AI, regulate the AI and gather the information from the AI. There is a reason its called ARIFICIAL intelligence. The real intelligence is the author of the program and those who profit from it.
While trying to delete my seven years of blogs, they all suddenly disappeared, except for the past five of which I hadn't selected above. I didn't delete them all, so where did they go and why was they taken out of my account without my permission? To help me or to keep the information that I provided and they desperately need to gain value from my account? Interesting question isn't it? Don't take my word for it.. go back in your history and start deleting a dozen post, leaving the one above your selection alone during all the deletions. When you delete a post, it cycles and the one below what you deleted then take the place in line.... do it a dozen time and everything will POOF from that point of where you were making the selection to when you first began to post blogs. Maybe it's a glitch in the system or the system is working just as intended. That's for you to decide. What I do know, is in the seven years I've been here, the site has changed it's policy and permissible user tools about four to six times. Every time it takes away from our freedom in Kink and gives us "safety" by censorship. To which I call Bullshit. I wrote this blog pre-their inevitable blog to calm the masses... they do it every time they fuck us over, so I anticipate it happening again. Now I've read their blog and as I suspected, they are wanting to involve Teens into our kink by making Cage an public available app on Goog/Appl. Go ahead, tell me its about government restriction and crack down on porn. Very soon, every Master and Dom is going to be facing communications with children and being held accountable for their kink talk on an adult site that invited kids to join us.
As this is my last blog and I do intend to delete my account over the direction that the site is going in, I'd like to clear the air about past blogs and posted comments that have caused offense.
It was intentional. I'm not sorry and my haters can eat my ass.
Unlike thecage, I am fully aware that this is an Adult Kink site and some may have drooled a bit and licked their lips. 😘 love y'all!
To my cage friends and followers, thank you for your support, inquires, questions, conversations, and your words of kindness, your understanding and tolerance. This cage is no longer SSC conducive in my opinion.
If I'm not banned in the next couple days, and you see me as still active after Friday July 31st, it's not me. I've already deleted my personal pix. uploaded pix, most of my blogs and information.