Last night was amazing! My fiance and I have previously did some light power exchange in the past but it wasn't consistent not even in one session. As ive mentioned in previous blogs/posts I only recently sat down with him and got into more depth of what I wanted/needed and we talked things out. Well yesterday afternoon and last night were both amazing scenes. Nothing elaborate, but he really stepped up and not only did amazing job as my Dom, but seemed to thrive from it. I think this is the start of a new chapter in our relationship, and I'm so excited to see us both grow. I know it can only help with our communication skills and trust as well so I see this being a positive for us all around.
Outside the bedroom we will still be primary vanilla, neither one of us really want a 24/7 dynamic though we will be adding protocols like some have suggested to help flip that switch from vanilla to him being my Dominant and me his submissive. Im a bit of a smart ass in my vanilla life so I have to be careful not to take that with me once that switch is flipped...haha. So I think it'll really help me get into the right mindset when I need to be.
I can't wait for future sessions 😄 For him to push me out of my comfort zone while respecting my limits (Which already He has started to do so) Im happy, so much less anxiety today....and have I mentioned Im excited for more :p