There are so many interesting people on here. I can start talking to someone and either know to start with or learn shortly in that there is no way for anything to progress beyond friendly flirting or chit-chat.
How frustrating.
Not only is it necessary to figure out who is looking for the same things you are and who is only pretending to be looking for the same thing, either in order to either stroke their ego or make use of my holes for their own gratification, but finding someone close to my location is also a trial.
Add in my fairly busy schedule and I may as well trying to find a needle in a field of haystacks. But despite that I stay optimistic and hopeful. I am not in a hurry. I have wonderful friends male and female, Dom and sub. A couple of Doms who would like to be more but location location location 🙄.
I am slowly rebuilding my profile after a split from my last Dom. It was a sad process but staying in one place mooning over the past and what cannot be is not healthy.
Time to move on and enjoy what life has to offer.
I am curious what other people find to be the hardest obstacle in finding/meeting someone new?
For me I would say first location then mutual desires or cravings both sexual and non sexual.
