Musings from the dragons heart

It has been a while since first my mother in law died then my wife suffered a serious accident recovered then succumbed to a rare and aggressive cancer- three years of hell my family called it. Planning for the years to come and low and behold covid! Is it a wonder that occasionally I have upsetting dreams, this morning I woke with tears in my eyes, as my mind played some disjointed memories around.

However the light feathery touch of my loving submissive was not far away which took me away from the mess onto a cloud in the sky - the sun is out my sports car is waiting to take me to work, the down point is that we will both go opposite directions today when I could live in her arms.

Never forget how your actions will effect/influence other people - whether you are a Dom with great responsibility or a submissive with great responsibility.

"Healing comes from taking responsibility: to realise that it is you - and no one else - that creates your thoughts, feelings and your actions"

Peter Shepherd

Thats all today folks.

Floradragon

Like a second hand times moves on, but alas I read of the instas, the submissives being targeted, bad experiences. You can call me old fashioned, but I am proud of who I am - I have been told a number of times, (and I refer to male alleged doms - they don't deserve a capital D), that I should not carry the weight of these predators upon my shoulders and yet I feel that I am apologising at times for the actions of these individuals. I am male, I am a Dom and feel it is a responsibility I have to uphold my position amongst chaotic individuals whose only aim in life is sexual gratification - chalking numbers - taking a submissives submissive virginity and damaging the scene.

I have been quiet for a while and I am very happy in my relationship with Roaming Wild, but as a self reflective person I am always thinking and considering how am I acting - am I giving enough is she happy?

So to all those out there who feel it is appropriate to act inappropriately - but your self in the other persons shoes, think how they feel how they will feel - the world is difficult enough, treat every person with the respect they deserve - if you can't do that then seek a site that caters only for casual meets.

Basically don't fuck it up for those who are here because they care.

Thanks it nuff said.

You can fly free as a bird,

You can swim in the sea free,

You can roam the hills and tors,

People will see you as you,

They will not see the beauty inside,

But as you walk through life, 

Deep down you know my control exists,

The patience of my gentile Dominance,

My hand that wants to kiss your bottom,

My eyes that watch you,

My mind that enjoys the internal turmoil you sometimes feel,

But remember everything that happens is for you,

Giving you the strength to move forward and grow,

As a submissive, as you an individual.

It's Ok,

I don't blame you,

I understand,

I just came to say thank you and good luck.

I don't ask why,

Fall in,

Then fall out,

That's what love is all about.

Were we open,

Clean no secrets,

Honest, trusting,

Parting.

So I go,

Departing alone, 

Sailing; allowing the wind to take me,

Daylight pales lighting the way.

So if we meet again,

Kids in tow,

They ask who is that,

Just someone I know.

I look to the heavens and see a river of stars, they say for everyone there is someone - for some people this is hard to accept: love/rejection, pleasure/ pain, get/grief. This is not helped by the many so called people who allegedly follow the life style, yet drop it when they have had enough of it gets too real. We unfortunately live in a throw away society and it seems to me that some people regard both Doms/Dommes, submissives as commodity to be used and abused in the wrong way.

I have seen hurt, anger, shame here - I have provided a shoulder to cry on and an open, supportive and honest (even if the words are difficult to hear) ear. 

I have laughed and cried here. I am fortunate I am in a good place happy in my position - but always self critical.

I wish:

All people wherever they are treat each other with the respect they deserve, I want to sing of peoples love forever - want to walk with hope in my hand and dance in the rain - too much to ask for? or may be a lottery ticket would have more chance then.

Well life moves on, we are all still going through the great struggle against illness, loneliness and depression (to name a few), but maybe just maybe some green shoots are showing through. The world has a long way to go in learning to cope with the new norm.

There will be always the unexpected obstacle on the way but as a group of people we can see through the barriers to the other side - things we believe we can see may not be what they are.

Our future will come and like droplets of water the past will be washed away in a torrent, but not forgotten.

So allow yourself a great drawer of breath prepare yourself for tomorrow, live to the fullest reflect your love on others. I have been lucky here finding my partner - but what it told me is that you never know what's around the corner, but patience, honestly and trust are all needed to succeed. I have climbed walls and mountains and have slipped and fallen, I have made mistakes large and small - but all these experiences make me the individual, it is just a shame it took many many years to be honest to myself.

I am far from perfect and have probably hurt and insulted people on my journey and if that is you I apologise, however what I don't apologise for is an amazing relationship, friendship and dynamic with a wonderful person. My friends out there somewhere is someone looking and I truly hope that you find what you are looking for.

I did

All images taken 26/02/2021 by myself during a walk with Roaming Wild.

Floradragon

Sometimes you just have to put on your chicken hat, grab a bow tie and get on with life.

If God had put our noses on the other way around, when it rains we would drown.

"Doctor I hear words coming from my underwear".....Doctor, "ignore them they are talking bollocks".

Hens eggs are so amazing, after all have you ever tried to boil a chicken and eat it with a teaspoon.

A tree struggles to stand with out any roots, a Dom is the roots for a submissive.

As I walked along the cliff tops against the gale, I watched and listened.

The majestic roar of the ocean as it beat against the slate grey cliffs,

The rush of the spout as water erupts form the blow holes,

The sleek bodies of the gulls as they meander against the storm.

And yet you follow me, you allow me to lead you, you put your faith in me,

For that I am truly thank full.

Some submissives walk behind, following subserviently,

I want you on my arm, proud in the knowledge you are mine.

I want to show you off to others, I want to care for you.

For you are the one, the special one to me.

I have never celebrated valentines day, alas my inbox was always empty,

But this year my in box and post box may be empty but my heart is full.

For today, tomorrow you complete me, I am your Dom and am privileged to call you my submissive.

A submissive will forget what you said to them, will forget what you did to them but will never forget how you made them feel. 

Floradragon

One day a mother was cleaning her son's room and under the bed she found a bdsm magazine, this upset her. She hid the magazine until his father got home and showed it to him, he looked at it and handed it back to her without a word.
She finally asked him, " Well what should we do about this?"
Dad looked at her and said, "Well I don't think you should spank him."  

There are times she is kneeling out of obedience, reverence and respect. Those are the times it is okay to stand above her. But when she is kneeling because the weight of the world is just too heavy to bear … that is when You should be kneeling beside her.

What's green and carries a bull whip...

Kermit the Flog

Any man can grab a woman by her hair, throw her on the bed, and rip her clothing off. Sure he can tie her up, call her a ‘b*tch’ or a ‘sl*t’ and have rough sex with her. But that is not dominance … that’s rough sex, maybe even violent sex. If she’s into it, it can even be fun but that’s still not true dominance. True dominance is the ability to whisper softly in her ear then observe as she obediently removes her clothing. Methodically … one piece at a time. Watching as she kneels before you offering her entire self to you. Willingly, without hesitation or reservation. She will show you her most vulnerable self without embarrassment or shame. You will know that nothing makes her happier than making you happy … – AlterEgo

Why did the submissive cross the road?

Because her Dominant commanded her to...

Thank you for reading,

Floradragon

A great man died yesterday, I only use great rarely when describing someone or something. He survived World War Two as a tankie (average war time life expectancy was not long), during the first covid lock down he decided to walk 100 laps of his garden to raise some money for the National Health Service he was aged 99 at the time. During the final year of his life he raised 33 million pounds for the charity, he engaged a nation with his humility and humbleness, he became a honouree coronel in the army, became honouree member of the English cricket team, was knighted by the Queen, reached number one on the British download singles. Today flags in the country fly at half mast, messages from political leaders all over the world flood in. The word inspirational does not do him justice.

And I quote:

‘We will get through it in the end but it might take time, but at the end of the day we shall all be OK again… the sun will shine on you again and the clouds will go away.’ 

‘Let’s try not to get downhearted, we will get through this, whatever is thrown at us and together we can ensure that tomorrow will be a good day.’

We can choose to make ripples in a pond, we can watch as those ripples spread out only to dissipate or we can impact and place seeds of a new start and new beginning when we all move through to the other side of our current pandemic. Some of us will choose to make small ripples and watch the chaos occur, some will choose to plant a seed to germinate into something beautiful. I hope that some of the things I have written in the past will plant a seed make you think and inspire those who are unsure to embrace who they are and make good choices.

May my ripples be seeds of beauty and not ripples of caustic disruption.

Floradragon