Musings from the dragons heart

Let the song make you dance,

Dance with out a care,

Carefree and open,

Open without out fearing the consequences,

Fear may exist inside,

But do not let it win,

Win by being you,

Because you are an individual,

A unique person who has worth,

So let others not judge your worth,

The true judge is the one you hold,

The one you caress,

The one you guide though the stormy seas of life.

You are valuable and priceless,

Whether submissive or Dominant,

Either holds the heart of the other,

Able to break or nurture,

So be the be to nurture,

Not use or abuse,

But to care and hold,

And the odd spank where needed.

So whether a graceful Viennese Waltz,

The staccato of a Tango,

The physicality of Swing.

The intensity of the Argentinian Tango,

Let the rhythm of the dance of life take you on a wild journey take you.

FD

Love is...

Love is....

is not spelt it is felt,

is not touched it is embraced,

is not grasped it is earned,

is not cold it is warm,

is not fleeting it is eternal,

is not untrue it is faithful,

is not sedation it is loyalty,

is not expected it is gained,

is not doubt it is trust,

is not rushed it is patient,

is not divided it is shared,

is not reverie it is reality,

is not wrong it is right,

is not envy it is admiration.

Love is sharing your popcorn.

FD

The other day I watched a bumble bee a work, flitting to plant to plant seeking the pollen. The bee is a shape that should not be able to fly, a quirk of nature, perhaps since it does not know that fact maybe that is why it is still able to fly.

How often do we actually look and drink the beauty all around, the amazing fascinating world in which we live? How often as a Dominant do you look and drink the beauty of our partners, I mean really talking a step back and really look and drinking the feelings, the trust so precious they have in us, this is life in its fullness, when someone commits themselves to another, add onto that the trust and stability with the BDSM lifestyle I truly feel that this is a better and stronger basis for any relationship.

I have been honoured to find someone here, but have also been honoured that some people have asked for help and support, I will never have all the answers but I will answer as honestly and from a reality point of view, not fantasy. I welcome true friends and not wannabees, I laugh when instas block me for being honest, funny one of them offered to buy my submissive.....did not name his price, but then again she is priceless.

I lost my wife of many years 2 years ago, but my life has changed and I have become a deeper and richer person from the experience, in fact I have become who I was for many years, (but repressed), but I also know that I have developing to do. From a dark place a dragon has developed, hmmm Game of Thrones clip here - from the death and fire dragons are born. 

I look forward to the future, I look forward to spreading my wings and traveling with Roaming, I look forward to going on stage and singing again, I look forward to life.

Floradragon

It was the final school leavers disco - I was age 16 years and what those overseas may call a jock - Rugby and Volleyball were my sports. My friends and I have spent the years watching the girls make doe eyes at the male physical education teachers - our school tended to be the school where teachers started out on their career paths so regularly you would get beefed up male phys. ed. teachers. On this given night the lights were low and music loud - I dare say many a grope went on amongst the students.

Well for the first and last time I was egged on by my friends, one particular blond curly headed female Phys. Ed Teacher caught my eye she was dancing - her skirt swaying to the music and tight blouse aroused my adolescent body, I remarked this to my friends, their response was, 'ask her to dance then'.....no way I replied, and then I realised that all the male teachers were dancing with groups of female students but the female teachers were dancing with female students with few male students no where in sight, so I plucked up the courage and approached Miss P. I asked her for a dance. To my surprise she said yes why not, we danced a couple of dances and then the lights dimmed further and the songs became much much slower....I made my excuse - only for her to ask for me to remain after all we had not finished dancing.

So together we danced close, body to body, I could feel her warmth, smell her scent. Low and behold my feeling started to become aroused -  embarrassed I tried to peel away but she held me close - I could feel my hardness caressing her thigh my temperature rising. Until the song ended and lights came back up - the moment was broken and I left that lovely woman and returned to my friends. She knew what she was doing, she knew what she had done - considering her sly smile. I always wonder whether in her thought process she said, 'Yes I still got it in me', and felt that she was showing those male teachers that female phys ed. teachers can do it too. 

True or False

Floradragon

'After a while you learn the subtle difference between holding a hand and chaining a soul,

And you learn that love doesn't mean leaning and company doesn't mean security,

And you begin to learn that kisses are not contracts and presents are not promises,

And you begin to accept defeats with your head up and eyes open, with the grace of an adult, not the grief of a child,

And you learn to build all your roads on today because tomorrows ground is too uncertain for plans.

After a while you learn that even sunshine burns if you get too much.

So plant your own garden and decorate your own soul, instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers.

And you can learn to really endure...

That you are strong,

And really do have worth.

And you learn and learn…

With every good-bye you learn.

Some beautiful words written by some one else (two authors claim it), in the insightfulness is amazing - drawn on their own experience I guess. We all do not know what tomorrow will bring, every day is different, relationships come and go, some are good some are bad and some are challenging. In this lifestyle we will experience them all. We are given ourselves as raw clay, our experiences mould and create us all the time our misfortunes, humiliations, mistakes - our successes, gains and strengths, each day we a subtly altered, but deep down is you and important person, your consciousness, spark of life. As an individual the need to be valued is important but first we must value ourselves, whether you are: littlie, slave, masochist, slave, submissive, the list goes on, you must first search your self find your value and strength. At this point I feel at this point is when you can start looking seeking. But ultimately you must be honest with your self, happiness is got built over night it is worked upon by both parties over time - if someone does not wish to commit time in developing bonds and commitment ask your self what are they there for.  

Floradragon

If your submissives primary love language is touch.......

nothing is more important than holding them when they cry.

Touch is a skill,

to hold someone in their hour of need is an art and to be allowed to is an honour indeed.

Physical touch can make or break a relationship, 

it can communicate hate or love.

What is beauty? 

Is it visual,

Is it made,

Is it artificial.

For me beauty is around us,

Beauty is felt rather than observed,

Beauty comes from my heart,

It is a gift so preciously given,

So when I say you are a beautiful person,

It is so much more than skin deep,

I observe you as a person, a giver, a lover.

An print artist a very good friend asked me once to look at her prints, I was reticent. I am an honest person and if I did not like her work what would I do and say? I was honest, I judged her work and could interpret some of her work as being intensely personal - would I hang it on my wall - no, but I found out it was not intended for display - it was her release of intense feelings, her own personal counselling and by me being able to see what she meant by some of the images then it was justification for her prints. So I suppose what I am saying that when I give anyone a positive compliment it is me being honest and speaking from the heart.  

Floradragon

Look for your submissives strengths, tell them how much you appreciate them. Chances are they will then look to live up to those strengths.

An apple a day keeps the Dr away, a compliment a day keeps the relationship intact.

Love is not getting something we want, it is doing something for the well being of the one you love.

Sex is more about emotions than physical touch - meet the emotional need and the physical touch is the spark.

Floradragon

I can rant about covid,

I can stress about my work,

I can dream about what could have been,

Or I can accept my worth to the world.

The ranting and stressing would do no good,

The dreams that could have been would leave me upset,

But thinking about the world and those I have touched,

Peoples who stop and think and smile - that is what is important.

In my little way if I can effect a smile on the face of another at there moment of stress, chaos and depression then  have done my job.

A smile is one of the best gifts I can offer to everyone,  

Even if I am down in the dumps feeling low, a smile and thank you can make someone's else's day.....

Mind you the smile they return that is a priceless gift that costs nothing.

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I want you top fly,

To feel you can spread your wings and soar,

But feel safe in my supportive hands.

I want you to swim,

To explore the oceans of our world,

But to return to my warm embrace.

I want you to prowl the savannahs,

To state your claim and guard your territory,

But to snuggle into my warm breast.

I want you to smile,

Enjoy my hands,

As they caresses your body,

I want you mind body soul,

I want you to enjoy the pleasure and pain...

As I reach for an implement of love.

I want you to whimper to flinch,

As you feel the hard caress,

I want you to flourish as my submissive.